I've been ruined at times. It's so hot & frustrating. So I wonder how it feels to get every orgasm ruined for a longer & longer time...
Sometimes I miss normal orgasm, but generally ruoned ones are ok. Normally I get edges and leak, if I complete weekly tasks I am allowed for ruined.
Mad fantasy time! I'd love it if my wife only gave me ruined orgasms and made me eat the mess. In reality it'd be terrible haha
While my wife doesn't specifically set out to ruin, it seems like the last time between orgasm (usually 4-6 weeks) end up with several close calls/ruins. They are maddening. Great to feel that intense pleasure close to orgasm. But then the ruin without the drop leaves me insanely horny afterwards. And it keeps building up. I can't imagine going on for months on months like that.
I dont know about every time, but I usually need to find something to do to get rid of pent up energy and frustration other then touching/rubbing my cage which is forbidden. On the other hand I love a good "runing"
I love it. I love that my mind stays sharp and motivated, and that I don’t have that bad sub-drop and lose interest to my Mistress/bdsm/chastity. Nor that i have that blunt, empty and uninterested feeling. so it seems it really fits me. My previous pleasurable orgasm was in June 2022 and since then I have got only ruined orgasms about once a month. Always wearing CB and it is done with Aneros via prostate massage (or me using suction cup dildo). I get to eat my cum each time (as these days it feels like that I GET to and not HAVE to). It is a rule, that I should clean up my mess. It is actually enjoyable after getting used to it and you treasure it as it is somewhat rare occasion. It had been a fantasy of mine for a longer time and for me it works in reality as well. I have a ongoing contract, that I won’t get any pleasurable orgasm until May 2025 earliest. Of course, it is not granted that I get one then either. Totalling 1055 days without a full orgasm. And hey, I started all of this like everyone. Staying locked few days, few weeks, few months. And things have just evolved this way. It surely isn’t for everyone, but it is perfect for me it seems.
If I'm let out of cage for a release its never ruined. But I've only been let out twice since 11th july 2023 other releases ive stayed caged . Not sure if you count them as ruined l
For a year or so I was asked to ejaculate into a cup so that she could put it on a scale to measure the weight. My releases were every month or two - sometimes longer - it was whenever she wanted to collect some of 'her' liquids. The ruined aspect wasn't conscious on her part. Having to use the cup to collect every drop ruined it by nature of the process. Once the point of no return was reached, almost all stimulation had to cease - otherwise any spurts would miss the cup ... a cardinal error. She didn't know I was not getting a full pleasurable orgasm - she thought I was. It wasn't until I mentioned it that she understood what was happening for me. This made no never mind to her - she still wanted every single drop to land in the cup. I just had to get used to it ...
That’s been my reality for the past seven months. My wife decided one orgasm a year, everything else is ruined in the cage. When she senses that I’m a bit too built up during sex she’ll ruin me soon after to “reset” things. It’s not fun or enjoyable for me but that’s the point. The only reason it happens is to allow me to last longer for her without giving me any relief or satisfaction.
Few days ago, cuddling after breaking my 15 day dry record with a triple out of cage ruin session: KH: I've been thinking.... You enjoyed your Lady-Gasm (out of cage) so much that I don't think I will grant you an old fashion full orgasm ever again. You get much more, longer lasting, pleasure from the ruins I give you. I've very quickly learned to enjoy my ruins, in the cage ones feel even more intense!
I crave the ruins more than the full orgasm over this last year really, but I don’t think we’ll ever get to the point of my Wife only allowing ruins for good. We are trying this year to only give fulls every two months and a ruin every three weeks. We’ll see how it goes.
I’ve had a few ruined orgasms and actually enjoy them. Since I’m somewhat of a novice to chastity and ruined orgasms I don’t have a lot of experience but I’m learning.
I can't say I find it enjoyable - but yes, it is still to be treasured on the rare occasion. The reason for the cup is to make its recycling easy - every drop out = every drop back in. How that recycling all got started was pretty classic I would image ... My Mistress in college insisted that on the occasions she allowed me a release, I would be required to swallow all of it. I can still hear her voice saying "I had that stuff in my mouth once & gagged. I'll never do that again. But you, you will swallow every drop, every time." She knew I was resistant to this so indicated that it would always be my choice - if I didn't want to consume it, that was fine with her. She knew she could afford to be patient. Pretty quickly it became apparent to me that eventually my desperation would tip the scale with me agreeing to it. It was incredibly difficult at first - now its just routine. But I will always hear Ms. Robin's words when that stuff is in my mouth.