How often does she want you to orgasm?

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    How often does your partner/keyholder want you to orgasm? And has she said why?
     
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    I think my wife is in no hurry to have me orgasm. The longest I went last year was 100 days; currently on 76 days. She likes to play with her cock when unlocked, but shows no interest in making me cum.
     
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    161 days of of right now. so not too often. She HATES sub drop.
     
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    More often than I deserve
     
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    I'm with @Jay Sub , but it's up to her, so who knows when or if she changes her mind to length between
     
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    She leaves it up to chance (wheel spin app) and I have to wait between 3 and 8 weeks depending on where it lands, then I get the opportunity. She says she enjoys giving me an orgasm too much which is why it’s not anything incredibly long, but she does occasionally extend the time or just deny it and we move into the next sentence. Depends on her mood at the time.
     
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    At the moment it seems like once every week or two weeks… I am pretty happy if I get some attention though daily. I would rather have her attention nightly then her allowing me to orgasm once daily without her.
     
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    Well said King!

    At this point there isn't any kind of regularity. Just whenever she is in the mood. Sometimes that could be 2-3 days straight and sometimes that could be once every three weeks.
     
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    Yeah sometimes it just happens by accident from a gentle tease and sometimes it doesn’t happen because “she's done”. Both are equally embarrassing and awkward for me, and funny to her.
     
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    Nice
     
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    As little as absolutely possible! The last (and probably final) orgasm was in December 2016, and the last ruin (also possibly my final) was in Sept 2021.

    Not explicity, but in the past, she's said enough about Power Exchange and control that I'm sure that's the reason: because she can. She loves the control.
     
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    My Mistress feels orgasms are for real men and chaste slaves don’t count for real men so never is her answer to that orgasm question
     
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    For a while I was allowed "little cums", use of a vibrator against the cage while kneeling beside the bed. That has now been stopped. Since stopping I've experienced two anal all body orgasms and those are freaky. I also accidently discharge cum during sex, she finds that pretty funny.
     
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    Orgasm..? Little spasm on the dick..? None! Im done with orgasm.. she said. She still want hers
     
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    Hi,
    i can't cum without Her permision. Even when we make love i can cum only if She told me. When i have orgasm earlier I've got punishment.
     
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    Orgasm and ejaculation are different things.

    She wants me to never ejaculate and so that is what we are working towards.

    I just need to learn to orgasm without ejaculating.
     
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    About once a fortnight for me so far and they have been the most intense of my life. I don't know his reasoning or thought process. Part of the excitement is not knowing and accepting I have no control.
     
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    Zero for me, we are moving towards permanent 0 orgamsms. Se doesn't see the point on my side and I am learning to agree. I am also banned alcohol and have lost 4 pounds as a result.. She has indicated a bedroom TPE and outside bedroom non-obvious TPE.
     
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    Never, because she hates cum and male orgasms
     
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    My wife mentioned 6x/year is her “first” goal, less after that.
     
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    Never. No she hasn't said why.
     
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    #23 SubSnuggler, Aug 12, 2022
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    She lets me orgasm when She decides, and I've no idea what triggers it or why/when. Boy I wish I knew what it was so I could reproduce it!!!

    I'm thankful when it happens and always thank Her when I'm allowed to give her pleasure, or when she grants me a ruin or a release. Basically, if somebody has fun, I thank Her for allowing it lol.
     
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    Saturdays.. But not every Saturday.. How is up to her.
     
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    That is submission in a nutshell...Nicely put.

    And the bit about reproducing it....if we could work that one out.....

    1. I wouldn't need chastity
    2. We'd be billionaires
     
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