Hoping for ideas to send my Wife as we enter a new phase of orgasm control

If you ask then someone will be along any minute and tell you that you need to be dressed in a maid's outfit, hire some bull-type neanderthals to fuck her senseless, and of course you'll need to suck their copious amounts of cum from her orifices while you are chained naked in the basement.

It's quicker and easier for both of you if you describe to her, in detail, what you want.

 

It sounds like she is already leading so perhaps it's a good time to be less needy and to relax into just being there for her when she needs/wants.

 

Yeah, definitely be less needy.

You're welcome.

 

Our FLR marriage seems to grow organically. She finds things that she grows weary of doing and assigns those tasks to me as chores. It seems as though the further on our FLR develops she becomes more empowered and in our marriage at least, that is the goal.

 

You are in a delicate spot. You want TPE, yet you want to suggest things for her to do to make things better for you. If you want enthusiastic buy-in from her, proceed carefully.

A weekly get together over a glass of wine or coffee to discuss your relationship could be very helpful. You can bring these subjects up and have the benefit of observing her reactions. Also, she can ask for details. You will get immediate feedback which should help you. Good luck!

 

If you choose to have a get together, just ask her how she would like for you to bring up topics that can enhance the experience.

 

As long as she is throughly amused and satisfied by “releasing you” she has fully embraced it. I am sure she is going fine, but she should go to any length she wants to fully satisfy and amuse herself… physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally…

As long as she knows you are willing to “jump through any and all hoops” for her to satisfy the smallest of pleasure to her, without feeling bad about it… she has it down.

 

Ah the old "I didn't get the answers I want so now I dismiss the entire forum".

If you want her to get you off and you want suggestions for how to do that in a total power exchange. I suggest;
1) She doesn't get you off any more.
2) She says she will, but like the red queen and jam, not today.
3) She decides how, where, and when.
4) She does it with a shopping bag of barbed wire while you recite the alphabet backwards.
Also 4) See #1

 

Not sure what you mean by "ideas to send her". My wife wanted zero instructions from me about what my relief schedule should be. Rather she started small (short lockups) and extended lockup time (more or less doubling them each time), observing my behavior, until she found (finds?) the duration that she likes best.

But again it was her idea, I wasnt even happy about it!

 

You should have made the post...

"Different ways to bring a man to orgasm"

If that is what you are looking for, just ask, lol.

 

It’s all about how you phrase your question. The answers you received were meant in goodwill.

Try a shorter, to the point question. We’ll try to help.

 

I personally, agree and completely disagree with all comments. The problem is that any orgasm in its purist state feels the same…
The best advice which someone suggested was that you don’t get to experience that. Only when your truly and utterly desperate will you feel you enjoyed it more than any other.
Let her leave you long enough that when she sits behind you in bed, wraps her legs around you and you happily let yourself cum just by her rubbing you with her two fingers like she was playing with her own clit. When your that desperate it will feel fucking fantastic! You’ll also feel like a little princess. You’re welcome.

 

She needs no ideas.. the fact that she is taking charge and denying you orgasm while getting all hers herself shows she is determined, assertive, dominant and knows what and where she is heading.. she will make your life a living hell… you mentioned she is equipped with an arsenal of ammunition to be deployed against you and your encaged cock.. maybe you should get her a nice fitting leather bustier to match her newly engaged persona..

 

Have her make an account here and read the Female KH subforum, problem solved?

 

Write your kinky fantasies and fetishes on an email to her with video links attached, (Femdom forced bi, glory hole videos, femdom humiliation, etc.) Title the email "Things to earn my release and orgasm"

 

lol! But very true!

 

Dont worry, she will find her newly wielded power too irresistible to forego.. keep being submissive, you might have second thoughts later why you have led her down this path in the first place.

 

Give her an Edge-O-Matic, as a random gift?