Honored to be submissive to my wife

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    I am as the title says, Honored to be my wife's submissive, I will do anything she asks of me, and then some.
    However aside from that I am 100% Alpha, I am the stranger walking down the hall of a building that will look you dead in the eyes, I don't look away or at the floor.
    I don't take orders from anyone but her Unless I am at work, but then again I'm the foreman so there's that.
    Is anyone else like me or are you submissive by nature and look down and avoid eye contact with people who you don't know?
    I will treat you with the same respect as anyone frome CEO all the way to the custodial workers, until you disrespect me or my wife.
    But even in my home I always have the Last word with my wife......YES DEAR LOL.
     
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    Out of the house I'm an alpha male in an alpha male profession. I've generally been the dominant one at home too. I'm learning to be the beta at home now and I love it! Huge stress relief.
     
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    This is exactly me, i won't back down to anyone, I'd probably lose a lot of fights, but I ain't backing Down. But I worship my wife, i encourage her to be more dominant, more cruel to me. The more she is, the more I worship her.
     
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    I'd never back down, but that's not my point beta males won't look you in the eyes when passing they will look at the floor or look away, not trying to sound like I'm looking for fights ever well maybe before I married my wife lol if it was not for her I'd probably be in jail or dead by now.
     
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    I've heard that over and over, I don't agree! Unless I'm totally a betao_O I don't look anyone in the eye, I don't want to engage, because engagements indicate a breakdown of athority. I know my territory, and realms of authority, I have no reason to stare others down. Being easy going lowers the defences of others, it effects them for my benefit. Being forced to submit is a sign of insecurity and weakness, and strutting your stuff is an indication of arrogance.

    I try to be humble, try to submit, and except orders. I'm not good at any of those three

    I don't respect my wife enough, the cage helps with that.
     
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    I would say I align most with @Gwen Sissymittens comments of alpha out/beta in.

    Although I would say my Sub (beta) to my Mistress/wife at home has made me more respectful and humble out in public around all women, but not quite to the point of absolute submissive in public.

    I would qualify my "alpha" side as more protector around my Mistress. My role is to ensure her comfort and safety in all cases in public
     
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    It has nothing to do with disrespect it's all about confidence and owning your own presence in life, I don't believe in being disrespectful to anyone unless they disrespect me.
     
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    Not that it's a bad thing but as you described yourself you are a Beta male
     
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    Not.
     
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    Atta boy that's Alpha
     
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    I'm not sure who has the authority to define what we should be thinking of as alfa/beta. The term alfa brings people to my mind, people the world would be better off without, Vladamir Putin for example. He does not know his territory, nor realms of athority. He is so alfa even when he loses he still stares people in the eye. Beta brings Volodymyr Zelenskyy to my mind, we need more of him. He wasn't out looking people in the eye seeing who was ALFA, creating confrontation. Who comes to your mind and would you like more of these people around?
     
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    Please do not bring political in my posts, we can discuss alpha and beta ideas without political stuff.
    And if you are not sure where you stand just Google it and read you might be on or the othe or you might be kinda in the middle.
    I'm not judging anyone for what they are.
    You are what you are and that's what make this world so great, not everyone is the same.
     
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    What's political? Even if it is, I invite you to look away, to stop staring me in the eye or you will have confrontation. You can be a peace maker and stand your ground at the same time. I know how to ask google, but I'm asking you instead, what people come to your mind when you think of the term ALFA?
     
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    Why care about labels?

    I climb mountains, camp in the snow, ski, build buildings, restore award winning cars, build custom racing motorcycles, restore yachts and sail. I don’t see myself as alpha or beta. I get things done in my own quiet way and the people around me are happy. And I am happy.

    I also serve my wife. No labels required.
     
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    Well that doesn't scare me but whatever if you are that insecure, it's your thing I don't stare to be confrontational, it's just who I am, and most likely I will say hello as we pass each other.
    I don't need a safe space.
     
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    If you read my post I don't care where you are on the spectrum, made a simple post about myself if that hits the easily offended people I can't help that .
    I like everyone as I stated before I treat everyone with the same respect from the CEO to the custodian
     
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    I apologize if you took my post in that manner. It was not intentional.

    After years of serving her, labels such as these, that I might have applied to myself in the beginning, have become irrelevant. I don’t split my personality. Like most people I think, I am somewhat situational. But, I am just one person and I can manage my intimate life and public life fairly seamlessly. In fact, she would have it no other way. The combination of the two, has made me a much better person overall in all situations.

    Female leadership can teach men skills useful in all aspects of life. I think many men would benefit by including a bit of humility, sense of service, acceptance of leadership, and offering their trust.
     
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    Agreed, it's all good, I like everyone lol when I say I will stare and keep eye contact it's because I am going to say hello to you, but most people won't even look at me.
     
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    the male ego dies hard. Other than self satisfaction, what role does it serve? Alpha is developed and maintained simply to hide our faults and fears from ourselves and others. It's just a lie. But in an effort to avoid the alpha justification and wrath I hang my head and look away. Good luck with that.
     
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    I am alpha at work, in public and sadly in my marriage. I have no desire to be submissive outside of my marriage, but I want to be my wife's submissive slave. She is not there yet, maybe never will be, but I know what I want and need.
     
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    I don't use arrogance I'm very humble, but I still hold some of my ways but not, like most people think of Alpha male
     
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    Don’t 100% agree with this.

    100% agree with this.

    It’s my opinion that you can’t label yourself. You can aim to be one or the other in given circumstances, but ultimately you can try and be ‘Alfa’ and still be topped by a far more dominant individual.
    It’s an aspiration, not a character trait. Being an alpha in a situation is more about how you are perceived by your peers, family etc.

    I’ve struggled with eye contact my whole life. Just something I wasn’t even aware of until it was pointed out to me. This hasn’t stopped me being a fantastic a manager, directing and training colleagues, standing in front of 100s and giving presentations…
     
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    Agree with some of this yes I see your point,
     
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    I'm the boss at work. And she's my boss always.
     
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