I have been a long time lurker who’s just joined as a member. I am a sub to my wife, but only in the bedroom. We have played with chastity - I had an original tollyboy for a while - but my wife didn’t like the profile of that. played with various devices - now have a Vice and a qiui cm2 (which I am having some issues with). I spend about 70% of my time locked, normally only free at the weekends, which gets pretty intense with massages for my wife while locked up (and often with a vibrating plug in). my wife was pretty vanilla for a long time, so it can be done.