Hi all! It´s not my first post here in this forum, but some short facts about myself: My beautiful wife and i are together for about 15 years now and she was mostly in a „lose control“ of my orgasms for the last 10years, with several interruptions (kids, you name it..). 2 months ago we decided to reinforce my restrictions of being her sex slave, whose duty it is to satisfy her without cumming myself too often. And that´s actually the point we are working on this time, we want to reduce my vanilla style frequency from 1-2 times a week to maybe a more strict „once a month“ scenario, to start with. We also experimented a lot with ruined orgasms (for me of course), which seemed to be a good solution against my post-O-drop and could reduce it from 2-4 days to 0-1 days (depending on how good it´s ruined). Cages? Well, yes we tried some from CB and some jail bird style metal ones but none of them worked really well in my opinion. Too hard to clean, too pinchy, too easy to pull-out and so on.. But I ordered a looker01 recently and we will give it a try. She is not a big fan of cages at all btw, because she wants me easy accessible all the time. It would be more for the time when she is away or so. We are in our late 40ies, but very active and sporty and we live in Austria. Cheers ray69