Hi, i have a chastity device but i dont think it fits right, its not very close to the body and if i shrink i can pull out without too much diffuculty, what do i do ?
I suggest a smaller device...sorry I couldn't resist. In my opinion the base ring is the most important size to get right. Figure out what is the smallest you can wear without too much discomfort. You should barely be able to stick a finger in from the top of base ring.
Get a short tube and the tightest base ring that will still allow blood flow. You want the tip of your penis to be touching the end of the tube at all times. Even with all of that you can still pull out if you really wanted.
I can do the same but since I am the one who asked for Chastity, I do not. I had 4 or 5 ball trap devices and if I wanted to I could pull out of them all and even masturbate with a swab through one of the openings. Hold a vibrator against one and you can cum too. My wife and I view chastity as a common goal. She sets a date in the future and then we both work towards preventing my orgasms until then. I do not try to escape and I gave my wife my word on that so she can safely unlock me if I need to be unlocked. If you are looking for something that you cannot escape from first ask yourself why you would want to escape something you wanted to do in the first place. Then if you still want to get something escape proof either get a piercing or a full fledged chastity belt.