Help with dirty talk to use with a caged man

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    Hello,

    I'm looking for suggestions with common, popular, or words that you personally may have used, keywords used in dirty talk when talking to a caged man. I'm looking for inspiration to feel inspired on what to say, to improve or exercise my dirty talk abilities. I know preferences my vary. Thank you, any help is appreciated.
     
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    Well a logical standard would be to tease him about how he no longer has control over his own sexual desires, that his needs have to be earned by pleasing you. That he's not done a good job of using his own cock, so he needed to give it to you to get the best use out of it.

    Depending of course on what excites him, you could also tease him about his size, or his manhood in general. Many guys find that exciting and even as a change of pace it might work for others.

    But i think you just need to keep his focus on pleasing you, if he's going down on you, tell him he is earning his keep, making sure you keep him around, and that if he wants to ever have his own orgasms again, he better be sure you get your fill of climaxes.

    The idea would be to play off how him being caged has rearranged the normal sexual dynamic where a man's desires are now are secondary to a woman's.

    Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Should be very simply. You can say and do as you feel. Grab hold of his caged cock squeeze firm but gently and just just tell him what you expect from him. Let him know it about your pleasure and enjoyment. And all he can expect is more of what your doing to him now. And give him another pull and squeeze. Tell him how you feel and what is excited of him. Softly and slowly he'll get the message.
     
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    Go to Google, go to settings make sure safe surf allows explicit results. Then search for “chastity captions” click on images. Read a bunch of captions and choose what works for you.
     
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    Just saying the truth is good. Describe his situation. Describe what it means to you. Describe what it means to the relationship. That kind of authenticity is hot.
     
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    Tell him the truth by saying look down at you penis in a cage and say this is mine now while yes it is there for sexual desire but now it is my sexual desire not yours, and you will what I want you to do if you want any hope of any relief from that cage it would be better if you done what I ask of you. Try this hope this helps
     
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    Reference to size or uselessness is a good start, as well as reference to station in life, or in the relationship.

    Because it's understood that it's a dynamic and you're feeding into it, put-downs, disparagement, and some name calling isn't out of line, and will be appreciated.

    It may be feeding his fantasy, but reference to your lover, however real or imaginary he may be, and your caged man's inadequacies may be well received.

    Teasing goes a long way, as does reminder of denial. Remind him what he can't have, or tease him with it, then take it away. Offer a carrot on a string, perhaps a reward for good behavior or a job well done, or just that tease that's so close, yet not quite realized.

    Use him, but offer nothing in return, except perhaps the privilege of service. Remind him how seriously you take his caging, his chastity, , and remind him often. Remind him who controls that chastity. He will love you for it.
     
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    This is a pretty good idea, since 99% of these are made by men who are simply writing what they'd love to hear :rolleyes:
     
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    Exactly!
     
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    “No.”

    That’s a good word to start with. That is the word he craves to hear.

    “Ah, you are so close, I bet you would like to come, wouldn’t you. NO!”
    “You look so hard in that little cage. Wouldn’t you like me to take it off? NO!”

    You get the idea.
     
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    Sometimes she never says a word, just holds my cage and winks....
     
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    Maybe its more of a tone than exact words. Something said in a playful, fun, and cute way rather than something said during a porn video. Maybe you can just tap his cage and talk to it like it is a child or something. When someone use to "boop" your nose when you were little.
     
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    Whatever you decide to say it will be better than saying nothing at all, but don't forget that you need to be comfortable saying it. It has to be fun for you too. Just stating facts is good for me.

    "I have you where I want you".

    "No doubt who's in control now, is there".

    "No more standing up to pee like a man. You'll be sitting down from now on".

    "Tell me who the boss is now?"

    "You can ask me to be released whenever you like..... but the answer will always be NO"


    The more you can illicit a response from him, the better. Try a few things and see what effect it has on him.
     
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    Would he enjoy small penis humiliation? It often goes hand in hand but not for everyone.
     
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    google FLR joy, plenty of ideas here
     
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    I'm not sure, we haven't done any of that. Hmm. I need to double check.
     
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    Makes sense to check, yeah
     
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    I don't know why anybody seems to think the dominant part has to deliver hot things when it comes to dirty talk?
    Dom and sub have their own kicks and no gos. All people think the dominant is always the one that leads the communication. Maybe, maybe not. The best way to reach good dirty talk for both is: both are talking dirty! No matter who is the leader.

    In communication counts: The questioner leads!
    If you are the leader, then ask questions!

    Ask, ask, ask ... and then play with every answer. Ask more or deeper after an answer. Direct the answer feeding Your own arousal, or his, or both. And mostly end in another question.

    Q: Are You going to ask me for a release?
    A: No Mistress, I don't

    Q1: So You aren't horny enough to beg for?
    A: To be true I am horny as hell ... but ... You know
    Q: I know what? You dont like to get a release by me... Who then is right for mister horny? My sister?
    A: No, I'd love to get releasy by You, Mistress, please forgive me talking unclear to you
    Q: That was not uncklear, it was a lie! I'm not longer in the mood for releases. OK, what shall I say to my sister? tell me quick ... I will call her, tell her ... maybe she comes over?
    and so on

    Q2: Good boy! But today you are allowed to ask for. Once again: Are You going to ask me for a release?
    A: Thak you very, very much, my lovely Godess! Yes please, I am horny as hell, may I please cum today?
    Q: What would you do for me to earn this reward?
    A: I can wash and clean your car.
    Q: Really? You have to do this by usual chores! There is planned no reward for this. What, if I ask you for getting me a Lover that deserves this name? A man, able to do those things you can't do? You know what those are? Tell me!
    and so on

    No roadmap, no strong parts, noch choreography ... let it flow, notice the crossings and choose the way you feel comfort.

    When my wife and me do dirty talk then I stay the sexuel submissive Part but become the leader of the talking. Sometimes my wife takes over, sometimes not. It works perfectly.
     
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    My wife enjoys reminding me that my sexuality is controlled by her and she thinks this was the best idea I ever had, giving her control. She also likes to have me keep track of how long it’s been since my last orgasm, when I tell her how long her usual response is “Not long enough.”

    Works for us...best wishes to you and your partner!
     
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    Lots of good advice here, and maybe just watch a few femdom vids online and take it from there.
     
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