Hello, I am a 38 year old male. I have played with chastity on and off for years. I own three different devices. I have always had possession of the keys, or knew where they were, when locked. Currently fantasizing about my wife locking me up, keeping the keys, and making it her cock long term.
Ah ok what do you think she would make of it if you did bring up the idea of her keeping the key and if she found out by accident that you are using them what would she think
you're not unusual in your circumstances. Good luck if you ever manage to discuss it with your wife. and welcome here
It has to be brought up in conversation somehow. If she has a kinky side or knows that you do this will be easier. Perhaps set the scene so that it's there as a talking point. I too am 38 and have the same fantasy and we have just started exploring.
The first time someone else has the keys is so different. Take the plunge. It can be like foreplay for as long as the cage is on. You'll probably feel like you want to give your wife foot massages and lots of oral. Get used to it
It's been said many times before on here. Talk, communicate with your partner. Start easy, tell you have this fantasy and the reviews you've seen are mind blowing. And you might get something out of it too.
Whatever you do, don`t tell her with it on and then show her. She might run. Seriously, just tell her your desire and how important it is to you. Explain the benefits and see if she might enjoy it. I`m not that much further along than you. My wife and I have a FLR relationship for the past year and she just excepted the cage in the house this month. She likes me better when I haven`t cum for a week. I am caged right now and she knows it, but won`t discuss it. She is trying to see if i will take it off. The games we play.
Welcome. I am certain you will enjoy the site. I am also certain that you will find all the advice you need in your chastity journey.
Welcome to our community. I think you'll see others like yourself. Go at your own pace and good luck with your wife.
Don’t just dump a bunch of info on her. Tell her you read about a way for couples to improve their sex life that requires that you focus and pleasure her until you both can’t take it anymore. When she is ready and can’t take any more foreplay, she produces the hidden key and allows your cage off. Don’t rush it beyond that and SLOWLY let it evolve. Do you guys use any other sex toys?