Hello everyone, its great to be here! I have been into chastity and self locking, while away from my wife(@Spades), for about 5 years now but never had the courage to share this with her. We have been married nearly 10 years but I just couldn't bring myself to talk to her about it. That changed in the beginning of February this year when I worked up enough courage and brought up chastity. I explained about my self locking on and off for the last 5 years, and at first, she seemed a little shocked but only because I hadn't mentioned it to her before. She was more interested than I anticipated she would be and allowed me to self lock while home and through the nights. I had only wore a cage over night once in the past but during the next week, while my wife did research and seemed to become more and more interested, I wore my cage ever day and every night. February 15th my wife became my KH and so far I am enjoying every minute of it. It may have taken 5 years for me to find the courage to bring it up to her, but I am happy that I finally did and happy with the results so far. I do not think that either of us are certain which way this is going long term but for now we are both enjoying ourselves. Glad to be here and hope to learn some stuff from the site.
Show your wife proper attention and she will eagerly anticipate placing you in chastity. Go back to your dating days where holding her and sensuous kisses/caressing made her squirm. Mine had a gushing O this morning.
Welcome to our community and hope you enjoy being part of it. Now that you've confessed your interest in chastity to your wife, continue to communicate with her so the both of you can find where you want this journey to go. Good luck and thanks for sharing.
Welcome to the group. I brought my desire to be full time locked to my wife this January and her reaction was the same as your wife's. I hope you both get what you desire in your new phase of the relationship.
Congratulations @Locked4Her215 and @Spades. I remember well my confession to my wife, it felt I was coming out of the closet. Now that she knows, let her lead. Go at her pace. It's about restoring that courtship energy to your marriage and about watching her grow and confidence blossom.