Getting serious now

I think we are on that journey now. We she told me I didn't need to be released because I had already satisfied her, I started to wonder. Am I teaching her that she doesn't need piv to be satisfied. I think that I am totally nuts. If she waits until this weekend, it will have been three weeks. I want be any good for more than three thrusts anyway.
Why am i doing this again?
Luckily I think I am over the hump with the cage. It seems to have become part of me now and I hardly think about it, unless I get aroused. It is teaching me to not think about things that get me aroused which is a good thing. By the time this crisis is over maybe I won't need the cage, but of course that will be up to her.
And MsTara your comments are not helping with trying to avoid getting aroused. Your husband is truly blessed.

 

It has been a few weeks since my last post. I did get piv sex on Friday and again on saturday. I think she secretly gets turned on by the chastity cage, but she tells me it's weird.
We had another fight a few days later due to the way she was treating me. This year she took herself off of a light dose of anxiety meds that she has been on for 20 years. She can get overwhelmed sometimes and takes it out on me. I found the key and let myself out and masturbated four times in two days. I kept thinking why I am I doing this for her? Of course, it's because i love her, but it can be difficult at times. She had apologized the next day and we talked some more. I told her that I need to be chaste to deal with her emotional roller coaster and she agreed and wants to take a more active role with teasing etc.
We agreed to use the cage when i needed it. Turns out i am in the cage most of the time and when i ask if i can get out, she says no. There is nothing more exciting than making her cum and then hearing her giggle as she turns over and goes to bed.
Eventually I will be 24/7 for good and I think she knows it too. We have come a long way. I will keep posting when I can.
Thank you all for helping me for the last two years.

 

That is really hot. My wife will probably never be on the level that you are. She has come a long way on her journey and I am game for whatever she wants to do along the way. It's sort of a vanilla chastity and FLR marriage now. She is slowly getting used to the power that she has over me when I am denied orgasms.
On a different note, the meds that she has been on for twenty years apparently had the side effect of making her gain weight. She was always thin and the weight was added slowly over the years. She is now at the lowest weight in 15 years. She knows it too and flaunts it to tease me. I have a stocky build and have to work hard to stay in shape and she just laughs as she loses weight without any effort. I am happy she is losing weight and maybe this will help with her confidence.
Last night after rubbing her back and feet, I asked her if we could play around. She said no and your going to stay locked.

 

It has been awhile since I posted last and wanted to give an update. After going back and forth with the use of the cage, we settled on me wearing it on the weekends only. This has gone on this way for at least six months. I get a release inside of her every two weeks. She understands now that I am kind of an ass for a few days after release or when I masturbate. I have even gotten pretty good at having intercourse to please her, but not being able to cum. When I do cum she makes me put the cage on.
This week has been different. I hadn't had a release in over 2 weeks and needed the cage. It so happens that my last release was by my hand and my wife C was not happy about it.
Well Monday came and I kept the cage on. Then Tuesday passed with the cage on. The whole time I was really pampering her and being really attentive. Tuesday night she caught me getting the key to take it off to get some pain free sleep (she still won't hold the key). She asks me what I'm doing and I tell her I'm taking off the cage. She tells me no.
Last night I rubbed her back and feet for an hour and ended up having sex. When she climaxed she told me to cum and we climaxed together.
Before we went to bed she told me to put the cage back on because she didn't want me to be an ass until the weekend.

I think my wish has come true and I am finally in the cage 24/7. It has been a long journey but perserverence finally paid off. I think she finally understands what the cage does for her.