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    mens loos needs cleaning every 10 mins i think cos if they are not cleaned then they stink horrible even if you just walk past one. they must pee all over the floors and the walls.
     
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    Wow. Lavatories to nazis in two dozen posts must be some sort of record.

    I’m not paranoid, they really are out to get me.
     
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    I got to the part where you said a man would be more likely rape a woman in gender neutral toilets and didn’t bother with the rest.

    You think a rapist would be put off by a sign on the door telling him women only?

    Total drivel I’m afraid
     
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    And then I did read a bit more. That’s 5 minuets of my life I’m not getting back.

    I expect you believe in a flat earth too

    From reading that message from Roger I gained this knowalge

    Gender neutral toilets = conspiracy from the eu (google that)
     
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    Wow ... really

    Let's argue the other side ...

    I want Gender neutral toilets so that they are cleaner ... men's restrooms are almost always disgusting to the point that sitting in not something I do.

    So if we make all toilets gender neutral then they will be clean just like the women's restroom ... Right ... that makes perfect sense ... I'm sure the men would not dirty it up ... LOL

    I guess I just argued for not having gender neutral toilets so that the men don't mess up the women's area ... lol

    So instead I want to argue for Chastity bathrooms ... who's on board?
     
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    LOL!

    ya know... the real problem here is the incessant need for convenience. The multiple person restroom is a matter of treating people like cattle. Just as industrialization created mono cropping which in turn is destroying bee colonies, (not a conspiracy!) multiple person restrooms have created rooms where people are afraid of sex crimes, and urinals have lead to piss all over the place. good one fellas.
     
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    Honestly, I've never felt comfortable in a public restroom ever. Having the assurance that all in the room at the time are of the same sex might be logical for women, though I doubt it. Somewhere in the statement 'being sure that only people of your own sex' is a slight jab at those that may not fit that rigid definition, even if only subconsciously. I don't think you mean any offense, but defecation and urination have no gender, and are probably the moments best left to the individual only. However, I can understand that certain things are better left alone by XY humans. An example being they do not understand through personal experience what it is to have a menstrual cycle, and are not likely to be carrying an extra tampon. The idea that a restroom is safer by being gender exclusive isn't wrong, but putting strangers behind closed doors together doesn't ring safe no matter how you cut it.
     
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    I have written about this at length elsewhere.
    Public Toilets and their provision or lack of are a bone of contention for me.
    Perhaps more places willdo like Sheffield Council. Toilets for the public are no longer provided by the council. We are reliant upon pubs shops and eating places to provide them. One or two public parks on the outskirts of the city still have them and they are thankfully still gender specific.. years ago every public park had them almost every bus terminus and there were at least 5 public ones in the city center.

    This is a retrograde step the ancient greeks and they were copied by the romans (as usual) had public toilets with running water flowing through them.
    None too private, sharing a loo brush in place of paper, but I'm told gender specific.

    If the toiltes remain gender specific then everyone has choices which one to use and if any.

    No consideration given to old very young or those less able can not be right in 2018.

    Also no one seems to thinking of public order. How many men would stand by and watch a man follow their partners and/or children into the toilets. I would not and to hell with the consequences.
     
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    I got to the part where you said a man would be more likely rape a woman in gender neutral toilets and didn’t bother with the rest.

    You think a rapist would be put off by a sign on the door telling him women only?


    I CERTAINLY THINK HE WOULD KNOW IT COULD BE NOTICED and whats more a woman would be alerted sooner !
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    "Total drivel I’m afraid[/QUOTE]"

    Well is nt that just the kind of comment that comes from people who don't read everything and jump to conclusions ?

    Since we have quickly descended to the language of the gutter:

    No ! You Silly Billy ! You must surely admit that the one way a rapist might be NOTICED more Readily and Easily and then perhaps found out is when it is Noticeable.

    Are you then perhaps ,one of those simple minded souls who support the idiocy of gender neutral toilets ?. In which case i would be the first to blame you for encouraging them in the first place !

    i'm afraid that those of you who ignore the dangers of such situations are the very ones who help create the situations and the conditions for rapists to prosper in the first place. No wonder we live in a hateful and foolish World.

    The point you sadly missed was where there is an opportunity there is an incentive.
    You Prove my last point very well.

    " CONTEMPT BEFORE INVESTIGATION IS THE HEIGHT OF IGNORANCE"
     
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    Come to think of it . Being a male and noticing the long queues of Females outside the ladies i know that i would n't be waiting at the back of a queue to use one when im desperate and i would be very angry if a queue of Ladies prevented me from taking a pee in the first place. The trough would soon become the floor and i think i might be one who might peed on a seat too.
     
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    The Phrase "Conspiracy Theorist' does n' t impress me in the least .its just the kind of Language a mindless dupe might use and when he talks about Flat Earths !!!! i am sure he is as unread and unwary as a deaf dumb and blind man crossing a busy motorway who was given a a push in its direction. I might have more respect for you if you were respectful to people with differing opinions.
     
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    Rather than validation, maybe an IQ Test would suffice?
     
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    By the way; when you can stand on a ball spinning one thousand miles an hour with a magnet inside it and inside a vacuum tell me about it !

    I heard tell of a man who actually went inside a vacuum chamber ( in a Spacesuit) which was a specially Evacuatable Test Facility Dome in the USA. He was n't in there very long before his tongue started bubbling! They said later that if he has stayed there ; His Blood would boil !
    Perhaps my learned friend here would like to try it for himself as he must want his blood boiling very much ! Pfft !
    If you were to put an ordinary balloon inside a vacuum chamber it might very well burst if its half as inflated as this guy is. Dont believe me ? Try it !
     
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    Im done with the cheese and biscuits dearie.
     
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    Now then , where's me piss-in handbag. I need somethin' to piss in !
    Oh hear we are Mr Gobshite's Gob!

    If this was n't so amusing i would go to the Loo instead!
     
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    Hoorah a thread of Sanity i heard somewhere. Where was it?
    What would we do without some Toilet humour.
    Did i tell you the story of the mens toilets i went into in a Public Library no less? No?
    Well , there were all these holes drilled into the wall dividers ! i wonder what they were for?
     
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    You know what gets me with all this public this, and public that? You cant even take the piss ,without some arsehole butting in and taking a dump beside you. No offence to any posters here by the way. Just a scathing remark and of no consequence at all!
     
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    Nine rather strange posts from one person. Luckily, having a life, I ignored them.
     
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    Hello Roger.... is there perchance something bothering you a little.
    Something perhaps that it might help you to talk to someone about?
    Might I advocate the use of a telephone directory... hard copy or online
    Where you might find a qualified person that has experience helping others with similar issues.
    That person may even be able to help you find somewhere away from those nasty people somewhere quiet
    with a calming pastel colour scheme and pills... lots of pills
     
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    Don't feed the troll....
     
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    roger, I think you need to calm down.
     
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    I’m not going to reply directly to roger. That way my answer will be deliberately obtuse.

    Maybe he’s correct about keeping genders apart.

    Maybe we should have gender specific alleys to protect women?

    When we had schools split by gender I’m sure there were crys that mixed schools would result in many sexual assaults on the female students from the adolescent male ones.

    I’m sure something similar was said when black people suffered segregation.
     
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    This is not inteded as a reflection upon you or your mind set I merely wish to point something out.

    I am not sure how you meant your quoted sentence to be taken.
    I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking that in 1st World Countries the issue of males, other than infants, using the same public toilet facilities as females (or vice-versa) and issues surrounding having seperate public toilets for blacks and whites are anywhere near 'something similar'

    I also think your sentence is very open to misunderstanding and could be potentially fuel for debates of a race related nature that quite rightly we on this site thankfully appear to and without any thought, apparent effort, or coercion manage to totally avoid.

    In short.. discussion that is race related on this site is necessary, nor do I think it would be welcome, it just does not happen, for us re:TTTWD it is a non-issue I for one would like to keep it that way.
     
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