Hello everybody, as I'm new here, I hope I'm placing this in the appropriate section. I recently purchased three devices (one after the other) because I wanted to experiment with chastity. However, none of these have worked out for me yet, so now I'm wondering if there are any that would work for my particular case. I have a blood penis, which could get very small when flaccid. My scrotum, on the other hand, can be stretched considerably. I started with the BON4M Small, which I couldn't fill out entirely (at all times). Daytime wear wasn't an issue. But I could get myself off with the bigger rings; My erection would pull the device away from me and wasn't really restricted by it. Stimulation through the holes was easy. The smaller rings hurt a bit when trying to get erect, so I wasn't actually thinking about trying to get off. However, it became unbearably painful after a few nights. The device's weight and the erections would make the ring cut into myself too much at night. I never tried to escape but I now think it would probably be possible as well. I then tried a HolyTrainer 2 Small. Partially (without balls) escaping it was just way too easy. Otherwise, it was pretty comfortable, although—in my opinion—not as hygienic as the BON4M. Also, my penis couldn't nearly fill it out when flaccid. Finally, I ordered the Birdlocked Mini (40mm diameter) because it is even a bit smaller. I thought the wider “ring” could make it more difficult to pull out. Unfortunately, I could escape it entirely. That's when I started to read some more about all the variants. What I gathered is that there are three options making it more difficult to impossible to escape: a belt, a urethral plug, or a piercing. None of which I really like. The background is that there is currently no mistress that could supervise me frequently enough, e. g. device changes for daytime/nighttime etc. So, is that it for me at this point? Am I missing something? What are your experiences and advices? Thank you for any thoughts about it!