Foot Massages

I love to give my wife foot massages. Do it as often as we can, that and full body massages when possible as well. I do have a thing for her feet. Love to kiss a lick and suck on her toes and she enjoys the sensation. I do get aroused when doing it but I don't feel humiliated, I feel like I'm serving her as best as I can. I also love it when she puts her feet on me, even when just sitting on the couch. My favorite is if she teases me with her feet though, that drives me wild.

 

I don't have a feet thing, but I find rubbing them and massaging them to be pretty subbie. She enjoys it and therefore I do. That part is very non sexual and really only appeals to my submissive nature.

Then there is the licking, and sucking etc... that I find to be a turn on. There is just something about the very act itself that turns massaging feet into a domme session.

I mean come on, I'm actually licking and sucking on someone's foot. It's a mind thing. It's slightly degrading but not in a mean way, it's slightly humiliating but not because it's worse than any other areas or things I've licked. Maybe it's a primal thing, like grooming the leader of the pack, and doing so subconsciously tells ourselves we are submitting to the higher rank.

So, massages are fine and we both enjoy them but, it's only a turn on when I drop the pretense and adore them, and show genuine affection for something so far beneath her.

 

I have offered, but my wife thinks her feet are gross and thinks massaging them is silly. I don't have a foot fetish so I don't really care that she doesn't want that.

 

Hello @Vinny
I give my Wife a foot massage from time to time, usually a few times a week. Sometimes its part of a whole body massage, which often leads to us having sex, and other times she just enjoys a basic foot massage. I usually use unrefined organic coconut oil, as that is what she likes the most. On more special occasions, usually when time allows, I will remove her nail polish and give her a complete pedicure. I am no expert at pedicures, but she makes me go to the spa with her and get pedicures, so I know what it's like to do something resembling a good job. Good pedicures usually involve some massage and exfoliation of the feet and legs. Foot massages often happen while she is watching TV, or just lying down and relaxing. I do know it is one of her favorite things for me to do, she loves it, and it is one of the simplest things we do together. Unlike the old days of past in our relationship, now she tells me when she wants her feet to be massaged, and of course I never say no. Although, as you mentioned, it is sometimes a challenge to see how long I can make it last before I stop. Not sure I've ever made two hours though. Anyone who wants to demonstrate a bit of servitude and care for their partner, even if non sexually oriented, should be providing some kind of massage and touch to them. It is a very basic source of pleasure, relaxation, and gratification. Has nothing to do with foot fetishes either, unless that's what you are into.

 

My Wife enjoys me sucking her toes when she is already aroused, but if I started doing it when she wasn't already aroused she probably wouldn't get anywhere. I do however completely understand why you give foot massages as a way of being allowed to touch as I do pretty much the same thing. It is one of many things we do now that have increased our levels of intimacy and sensuality without things straying into being sexual.

 

My Mistress loves her feet being rubbed. Just like JiL it's mostly done in the evening when we're just relaxing it's almost automatic that she edits down and I rub oils I to her feet. With all the nerve endings in your feet it can take all the stresses of a busy day away. Going for 2 hours has been done before like if we're watching a movie and you just keep on rubbing them until the movie is over.

Most of the time this relaxes Her so much that she falls a sleep and I'm sitting with her feet in my lap unable to move or do anything because I don't want to wake her. So I just keep Gently rubbing her feet. Sometimes she has me kneel infront of her.

Mistress also receives a full body massage every couple days. I receive about one every six months and a foot rub about the same. Perfect Balance

 

Seems like a perfect situation he gets some pleasure from serving and you get a lot from receiving. What more could you ask for?

 

Ah Mistress, be careful. When giving a foot massage, the caged one is "topping from the bottom" for a brief period of time. He is in full charge for that time. Brief as it may be (lol)

 

It might be a chastity cliche but giving my Wife a foot massage is one of my favourite things to do for her. I am rarely allowed sexual contact so something like a foot massage is at least giving me permission to touch her. It also definitely gives her pleasure which is my main motivator so I get a lot of pleasure in return.

We have recently added a warm foot soak before the foot massage to increase her enjoyment even further.

 

Mistess Jules and I have been together for 3 years and 3 months.
I have been guilty of topping from the bottom however that stopped before the first 3 months had past.
I have no desire to repeat that mistake or the consiquense

 

No doubt! No disrespect intended, but simply put: "there's a little rub slut in all of us" (you know I mean that in the best way). Besides, we are happy to provide such a pleasing experience for Mistress.

 

But of course ;-)

 

Ah,

Ah, I think if you top briefly via the foot massage AND ONLY via the foot massage, you may get a pass and even a smile. The Mistress seems to be reasonable in that regard.

 

Oh I am safe with the foot massage Mistress Jules enjoys it.
I can sit rubbing her feet for hours I find it relaxing,

 

Well th

Well there you go........my work here is done! (lol). Enjoy!

 

Sorry I have to disagree with you just because I'm giving my Mistress a foot massage or a body massage. She still has control, she's also the one getting almost all the pleasure. I fail to see how I'm Topping from the Bottom by doing something nice for my Mistress. Would I also be Topping from The Bottom when I clean up the kitchen because she really appreciates when I do that.

If that's Topping from the Bottom than our relationship is totally different than yours. I'm locked, unless she unlocks me, orgasms are under her control, I'm disciplined when she wants to, I do what she tells me to, I do things to give her Pleasure like foot rubs. And I'm Topping from the Bottom?

 

I do provide my Mistress a foot massage anywhere from 2 - 5 times a week as she desires. They are very short though compared to most of you. Probably 5 - 10 minutes total. She has me kneel on the floor while she sits with her feet up on the reclining couch. I also use coconut oil and add a few drops of a scented essential oil. This is an end of the day routine for us after the kids are in bed and we are watching a little TV before going to sleep ourselves. I'm usually exhausted by that time and I doubt I could go anymore than 15 minutes. I don't have any kind of a foot fetish and neither does she. At times when she is being very dominant or I am being very submissive I kiss her feet, but I don't find it particularly arousing. On the other hand when she has me give her a full body massage I am in heaven. If my cage is off I'm hard as a rock and if it's not I'm tight and angry shades of red. Love touching her body.

 

@PouchPantyLover your Mistress must be so Pleased with you. She's also Lucky to have you to serve her. I can't believe your foot massages last only 5-10 minutes WoW, I'm working way to hard LOL

 

I'm always telling her to spend time in the mansion, but this is one thread she can skip . Most of my service to her is in the morning because I'm just a morning person. At night anything after 10:00 and Mistress fends for herself. On the other hand she wakes to a fresh smoothie and coffee every morning and a fancy breakfast in bed on the weekends.

 

Easy there, it was tongue in cheek humor

 

The first time I read that I felt the same as you, If you read the rest of the posts its clear its as @thundar says tongue in cheek humor.
So lets all get back to the wonderful world of massage oil and beautiful feet.