First Day Jitters

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    #1 jb123, Mar 19, 2019
    Long Story Short.

    Mrs.B and I Started Chastity Play almost a year ago with some ups and downs. around December of last year her health was a bit precarious in relation to us wanting to start a family and sex was removed from the equation for a couple of Months (which is fine by me, her health is much more important than me getting nookie) so we put the cage away for a little while.

    For the last week or two she has hinted she is ready for me to go back in the cage soon. It may be Tomorrow since she promised me a HJ.

    I have been cage free for about three months now and had pretty much free reign in private but now I'm going from 60 to 0 over night.

    On one hand I'm excited we are incorporating this back into our routine, on the other I'm getting nervous about handing the reigns back over to Mrs. B.

    Anyone else been where I'm at?
     
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    #2 corsac, Mar 19, 2019
    I was free on and off for trying for a baby last year, then free mostly for a few months trying new small cages. A week and a half ago my new contender came, went on and hasn’t been off yet with no signs of removal. It has been tough, I was used to a tube only device for the last almost 5 years!

    At the same time the feeling is amazing! I missed the control of a tight cage device. I am hoping it is like before and the first couple weeks are the toughest parts for me. You will settle back in quickly, just try to focus on everything non-sexual and don’t spend as much time here as I have... Enjoy it!
     
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    #3 Sexy Slave 69, Mar 19, 2019
    I have been in a similar situation.
    The words she knows best come to mind and have always proven true.
     
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    #4 jb123, Mar 20, 2019
    Well, Mrs. B gave me a nice HJ last night and I am now locked back up in my Contender.
     
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    #5 PouchPantyLover, Mar 20, 2019
    As much as one person can be similar to another, yes I've been where you are at. We also stopped chastity play for different reasons. We started discussing the idea of getting going again back in October. Ultimately we decided to ease into it with a game. Different color chips in a bag, draw one chip a couple times a week and do action specified by color. I was locked for the game until I drew a white chip and then I was unlocked, allowed to cum and game over. It wasn't an FLR, but I did have to do what she said while locked as a rule. It allowed us a nice gentle dip your toes in experience instead of diving into the deep end. We decided to return to our full FLR and undetermined orgasm denial as of the new year. I think we would have failed if we tried to start there.
     
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    #6 Elephantdonkey, Apr 13, 2019
    Thinking about trying a small device! In my current steel cage I can almost get a full erection!
     
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    #7 corsac, Apr 14, 2019
    They are fun but extra frustrating to wear!
     
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