First day in Chastity.

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    I received my first chastity device today: Birdlocked

    I have been experiencing a lot of ball pain. I have large cajones and there is not enough space for them and as I stay locked they will only grow. I have heard to use moisturizer or baby oil on my sack to elevate the pain. I will have to try this and document it.

    I had to remove it only after few hours after having it on. I plan to keep it on for a whole month and my girlfriend will be my keyholder.

    I have decided to do this because I look at porn all the time and I masturbate more than twice a day and this has impacted my everyday life. I am a student in University and it takes up a lot of my time from studying so i hope this will help.
     
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    Hi Newbb21 Please give it time. Your body will have to adjust to having something locked down there. For the last 20+ years its had it's way, and now you want it to be happy the first minutes. It took me almost a year to get my Neosteel belt adjust and then my body and mind adjusted to it being there. Now almost three years later, I feel something missing when not locked.

    I take it from your name that you maybe around 21 years old. I doubt I would have been able to stay soft enough to get anything locked over it at that age. Let alone not have to play with all the time. But once you do get over the bump and can wear it more often and not be masturbating daily, you and your SO will see all the joy that Chastity can bring you both.

    So in closing, your doing the right thing, if something feel strange, or uncomfortable, just remove it for a short time the re-lock it on. Soon you will forget it's there, or I should say, wish you would forget it's there. And you relationship and school work will prosper, now that your not wanking off every free minute.

    Good luck Missy Tanya
     
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    Hi newb,

    Contrary to so many fantasy stories, your testicles do not grow as they "fill up" with semen. In fact, only a small portion of your semen comes from the testicles. If the balls swelled when sperm could not escape, everyone who's had a vasectomy would be writhing on the ground in pain right now. lol.

    You're on the right track with moisturizer. Use it early and often. Also, you will find that over time your scrotum will stretch a little, and life will get better. I also find it helpful to wear tight underwear, so that there is less stretching from the scrotum hanging down.

    Best of luck, and do keep us posted!
    mikecb
     
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    Thanks guys for the advice. It has gotten a lot easier to wear now. Its rather comfortable actually. I fixed the ball pain because i had my testical turned around in the device so it was painful, but now i've figured it out, sooooo I have no problems now EXCEPT:

    it is difficult to keep hidden under gym shorts or sweat pants. I am a very athletic and active person and Living in a hot climate in the summer i need to wear gym shorts to work out in. It is seriously extremely noticeable under compression shorts with baggy gym shorts. I've got the birdlocked mini so i wouldn't have this problem and i also heard it was the most unnoticeable chastity device on the market. lol bullshit.

    I need help bad cuz i have to work out! that is a must. I just cant take it off to work out and then put it back on when i get back cuz that is when I am at my peak of horniness and I will take care of it without being locked up.

    Newwwbbb
     
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    Newbb,

    I just have trouble imagining it's THAT noticeable. Are you sure it's not just in your head? Could you maybe post a picture? I know there are days when I feel like everyone is staring at my crotch, but it's just not that noticeable.

    mikecb
     
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    Welcome to the club.

    Just to let you know; my PA5000 is not visible in any way, I do not feel its presence and -tadah- it's impossible to remove without the key.

    I had my BirdLocked PA 45 on for some time but spontaneous testie slippage and problems with peeing (all pee not coming out easily) got me thinking about other options.

    Yes, it's true that PA5000 definitely requires well healed Prince Albert piercing, but getting the piercing is not painful and PA is easy to heal.

    Ah, one more thing. I remember the first weeks were difficult, as I felt the device and was constantly horny. Now I've gotten used to the device and it does not cause too much horniness in itself.

    Just my 2 cents
     
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    Yea i defiantly think the visibility is all in my head. i wear compression shorts now. My girlfriend said she had to stare to really tell it was there under my jeans.

    A NEW PROBLEM:

    damnit i was taking a shower and one of my testicles slipped through and the birdlocked pretty much slipped off because of the soap. Damn this pissed me off. Now i have to unlock it and put it back on. Yes the ring size is too big, but if i tried the smaller ring size. it would be too small! lol bad dilemma here

    I am thinking about adding silicon cream to the ring. Mainly to the top to prevent pull out and around the bottom to tighten up the ring size just a little, but not much cuz then it would be way too uncomfortable. Because when i get hard inside the birlocked my testicles turn purple already and thats no fun at all now is it?

    Wow i didn't know this chastity thing was going to be so much work... i thought i'de buy it. put it on. and get used to it and presto life is good

    I am regretting not getting the CB6000s. I think this would have been a better fit, maybe? Wish there was a free trial version i could try on like a shirt at a clothing outlet store. haha
     
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    I have both the Birdlocked and the CB6000. I prefer the latter because I find it to be less noticeable when I'm sitting down (the Birdlock tends to poke out unnaturally).
    I also haven't had any issues with security with it but I know some people have.

    One thing I thing everyone would agree with is that the CB6000 is much, much easier to get on than the Birdlocked.

    Just my two cents....
     
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    I think I am regretting not getting the cb6000.
     
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    I own a cb6000 for some time, and haven't over used it, but I am starting to regret buying it. While the design overall is quite decent, I am having issue with the assembly line of the cage that's starting to loosen up.
    I can get pinched down there too often while wearing it to the point it's extremely uncomfortable.
    I am now starting to look for a single piece cage based belt.
     
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    I guess there is no perfect chastity device out there. hmmm maybe in a few years they will invent something that works pain free and completely unnoticeable under clothing
     
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    Well I wear a steel curve device which I find very comfortable with very little to no pinching or irritations, my only problem is that the device I am wearing is showing sighns of rusting because it is a chrome unit. I have orderd a Mature Metal stainless Steel Jail Bird that I should be recieving within the next few days and I am hopeing it is as comfortable as the device I now wear.
     
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    First rule is NO pain that lingers - there is some uncomfortable time getting used to wearing but i have to weigh in on this. i can't stay in that long either - maybe four or five days as my sleep gets affected. So mostly - i am put on hold and she would know if i was secretly stroking as when i am allowed to cum - She wants to see a very large and full load and She truly knows by how much i ejaculate. Sometimes i m allowed inside Her and other times all over me and She enjoys seeing me play with it on myself. i am not allowed to cum so often and i do beg at times. Next week i am going to be allowed to beg to cum and She wants it to be a large present of cum. Sometimes i am allowed to make ice cubes for my drinks. They're actually yummy in drinks. Sometimes Mistress will ask for special cubes - pure protein.

    On your original problem - i understand where you are "cumming from" and you do need to get a handle on that - we have all been there and done that and there are some bad puns going down now - sorry.

    But get it so that there may be some slight discomfort when wearing but no pain involved. Find out what works for YOU on this. Find your comfort zone and what works and if it doesn't - find a solution.

    So Q and A. Are you wearing this entirely on your own or are you guided by a Domme in this? Why can't you simply take it off to work out and then that is a grand time to clean things up. Put it back on in the shower - you're a cleaner person for it ;)

    There are some serious wearers here and i have worn some on and off and do not consider myself an expert but have had chastity devices in possession for eight years now. All the best and there are some great responses here. Remember - it has to work for YOU! :)


    Semen info
     
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    I am wearing this entirely on my own. I am getting fed up with the birdlocked because its uncomfortable to wear at night, It slips off in the shower, i have to remove it just to go to the gym and even when go out in public (too much bulge). I need something i can wear at all times, because i will remove it to work out and then not have the power to put it back on before i rub one out. defeats the purpose eh?

    I will not wear a belt and I hate to buy another device because I am a college student and I don't have much money to throw around at this side project of mine. If I could sell someone my Birdlocked for relatively the same price ($125-$130) I bought it for since its new. I would get the cb6000s in a heartbeat, but with no extra cash means no extra device haha.
     
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    I always thought it'd be neat to try on a birdlicked poco, but one look at the design told me discretion was not one of it's strong-suits. The main band is thick as it is, and with the cage pointing straight out like that, it's definitely going to stick out under clothing. I had a cb6000 (regular length) for quite a while, and was overall satisfied with it. With a little change to my wardrobe (close-fitting underwear with looser clothing) I have been able to hide this fetish of mine right under my parents' noses (it's much cheaper to live at home, don't judge).

    Really the only reason I sold it for a CB3000s was because I'm not very well endowed, and even after not cumming for like 2wks after being a semi-chronic masturbator, I was still a good inch from reaching the end of the cage. The new one I got on eBay is actually about an inch and a half shorter, and pointed down more, meaning I'll finally experience that truly restrictive feeling I shouldn't been having.

    Anyway, short story long, if you can't find anybody willing to trade you for a 6ks (try posting in the Mall section of this CM forum) then just wear it with some underarmor instead of underwear, and maybe add an extra one of those gummy cockrings or some other kind of sack-girth-increaser with the birdlocked and see if that helps ;). Plus, while walking around the gym with what looks like a perpetual erection would be unfortunate, changing and showering with it on is very exciting, and who knows (if your gay) could lead to some interest from a hot jock ;D~
     
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    Hey thanks for the info, Weightrain. I have posted my Birdlocked under the mall for sale. Once i can sell it, I will purchase the cb6000s and maybe the pullout prevention add on if I need it. I am actually really in need of it because of my chronic masturbation and because my gf really hates it when i masturbate.

    haha no I am not gay and I wouldn't wear it ever in the gym showers or be naked in the locker room. It just isn't acceptable on a college campus lol. So i need something that is REALLY discrete because if someone finds out I would have to transfer colleges lool.
     
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    http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=280554595788&ssPageName=STRK:MESELX:IT#ht_500wt_1154
     
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    Hi Newbb.

    I have not used the Birdlocked but I do use a CB6000 with my GF as the keyholder. I too masturbate far too much which my girl friend doesnt like because it lowers my interest in actual sex. I was concerned about visibility at first as well but I switched to wearing tighter fitting underwear (just try some sort of brief) & I wear jeans that fit me pretty well. when im sitting or moving sometimes there is a slight bulge that is noticeable but it just looks like im "well endowed". One thing you have to remember is the vast majority of people dont even know anyone actually wears these devices or that they exist so they are just going to think you have a big cock LOL.

    I've recently started wearing a jock strap under boxers or my regular underwear & have found that holds the device in place better than anything else & makes it much more comfortable. You might want to give that a try especially if you end up with a CB6000. Also the feeling of having everything nice & snug in the jock creates it's own horniness :D
     
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    I JUST sold my Birdlocked on eBay and am now just waiting for my CB6000s in the mail. I hope i do not need to purchase a security insert because that is just more money to spend.

    I will be sooo happy if i can wear this 24/7 and not worry about it. (and so will my gf). No pullout, No falling off in shower, No bulge in pants.

    I will not get a PA piercing. Even though I know it is the best for security. That is against my beliefs. (no piercing or no Tattoo).

    I will post and record my experiences with the new CB.

    Does anyone know what is a best technique to milk myself?
     
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    Any suggestions about hiding a bulge? I just got a bon4 and had to wear an old pair of baggy jeans and oversized jacket to hide the bulge. Today I tried to tie it up but bulge was noticeable in my nomal jeans. Any suggestions?
     
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    Use compression underwear. It's sold at sporting goods stores as the modern version of a jock strap.


     
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    You stole the words right out of my mouth Mistress Spike. haha.
     
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    I got my new cb6000s, figured out my configuration, and I am wearing it now as i type this. It is so comfortable and so discrete under clothing.... If It wasn't for the dang bulky padlock, it would be 100% invisible under my gym shorts!! so the plastic ties will do me well when i get comfortable with it.

    I think i could wear this 24/7 and for months. (how long can my record be???) There is no way i could fit myself inside this tube with a pullout preventer. I barely fit inside it as it is! i have to push myself inside the tube when flaccid because my dick is too wide for it. it is going to hurt when i get hard :(

    I like the look of the CB6000s than the Birdlocked. It looks more like a device than a silly toy.
     
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    :lol:
    Nobody's probably going to believe this, but JackStrap had absolutely no idea, what "jock strap" is. :p
     
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    ROTFL! That IS funny!
     
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