So a couple weeks ago I finally told my wife of 12 years about my chastity fetish. She was open to it. She officially locked me up last Saturday. Really looking forward to where this takes us...
Update: So we had an amazing day and night last Saturday. We stayed at a hotel that night for a staycation to celebrate our wedding anniversary. There were several times throughout the day that she would touch me down there, or make a comment that she had the keys, and would joke about not unlocking me. We went out on the town for dinner and she ended up putting the key on her necklace, it was so hot. We had both been looking forward to that night for weeks, and the sex we were going to have. Adding the cage to it made it even more desireable. She seemed to have a lot of fun with it, teasing me and making me please her before she finally went down on my locked cock. She licked it and sucked it for a while before unlocking it. She then sucked my thobbing member for a while and told me Im not allowed to cum. We fucked for about an hour (the key still on her necklace and bouncing off her chest while she road me, before she finally told me I could cum. It was intense, even though I was only locked for the day, and had masturbated the day before, so I wasn't denied for very long. I could only imagine what it would have been like if I were locked for a week or more leading up to it. After that we both went to sleep, and in the morning we fucked again. Not much was said the rest of the day, as we were going about our normal routine. Then as we were relaxing on the couch last night watching Netflix, she reached over and patted my crotch, asking 'You didn't put it back on?' I said "no, you didnt tell me to put it back on". She then said 'maybe later this week...' I like where this is headed...
We had a great time that day, but after we had great sex that night and the next morning, the chastity thing kinda went away. We fucked a couple more times this week, and she would make a small comment here or there about locking me back up. Well she started her period on Thursday and she said something about not being able to do anything for 5 days. I knew what she was talking about, but played it off like I didn't. She asked me what I thought it was, and I said 'something other than that'... She then came back with "we might be able to try that too". She made a comment when I got home from work last night that she might have to 'lock me up later'. And it fact, she did. So I've been locked up since 10pm last night, 2 days into her period. I imagine it will be at last Monday before I get unlocked. Im horny as hell and my cock is throbbing in my cage as I type this! I've locked myself up here and there-even for a weekend before while either she or I were out of town. But this is much different since she did the locking and she has the keys...
Its a rush isnt it. We started like this last march. It was amazing how fast we went to almost 24/7 lock up, pegging and spanking. When i introduced chastity i really opened pandoras box. If you enjoy it only half as much as we did your in for a great ride.
The sex is on a different level after being locked for a while. Even after as short as a week for me. The orgasm is intense. That's from someone that used to pleasure themself every day.
Thats what I'm hoping for. We have had a little bit of kinky sex in the past, but I would like to have more of it! I'm the same way, I used to masturbate every day, sometimes 2 or 3 times. Im looking forward to her taking control and not allowing it to happen.
It definitely helps if chastity isn't the VERY FIRST kink you spring on her, lol. Sounds like things are going very well and she will have you well under her control in no time at all. Keep us posted.
if you want those red bumps to be a thing of the past... https://www.amazon.com/CasaVida-Exf...id=1605415051&s=instant-video&sr=1-16-catcorr use this daily before and after shaving. its coarse but you will get used to it and appreciate not having bumps every time you shave or wax. congrats on the open dialogue with your wife.
I recently told my wife and have been locked 24/7 since. I have not come without her hand or pussy for over 5 weeks, yes, no more self gratification, though she hasn't left me for more than 5 days yet. Sounded like she was a bit disappointed you weren't locked back up after the first night. Bet you'll be buying a better device before too long. I got a similar one to you for the first few days then got a small HT4 from House of Denial £35. Very comfortable and sleep is not too bad now. Good luck. You are in for a ride.
Juts be warned, I know someone who did the same and now his wife makes him eat his cum every time he cums - to show his appreciation for being allowed a release..
Congratulations on beginning your journey! You might want to cut the white pins back now you have your sizing sorted, make things a bit more streamlined.
hello @JKink96 and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well. your cage is ok for get rigt size but i dont think you gonna like it on for ages cos them ones hurt and pong after a bit.