Fake "domme"

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    In the last 2 weeks, I had 3 different "domme" trying to get me to get a paying membership to bdsm.com.
    I know it's a scam. I didn't fell for it. It's very sad, but many "domme"(and by domme I'm assuming they're fat guys in a basement) are part of refferal programs. They pretend to be you're (sub boys) ultimate fantasy! They are not.
    Those fake dommes are here and on many other websites.

    As a general rule, if someone requires you go give money to as web site (espicially bdsm.com or their affiliates), they are probably crooks... Anyway, that's my experience.
     
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    ... I just re-read my post...don't give me shit about grammar...or spelling... english is my second language...
     
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    Hey there @Loki the Chaste

    There used to be a thread called "Off You Go" where these people could be outed, but it seems to have been archived...?

    Does anyone know what happened to that thread....?

    (Apologies if I missed something somewhere!)

    With the absolute kindest regards./

    J.
     
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    Most English people are not able to speak or write English correctly, so I think we can be forgiving of a mis-spelled word or an incorrect sentence structure.. And anyway, English is as she is spoke, so don't sweat it. :D

    I've never seen anyone given shit for their English here actually. Use of profanities perhaps.
     
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    #5 maid_carrie, Oct 8, 2014
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    This sort of activity has always been frowned upon here and I think that is still the case. No point just talking about it though. Name the people in your post so everyone knows who they are. You make the point well about always being on your guard though.

    It is probably worth copying the conversation and sending it by PM to @Administrator so he can take the appropriate action with their accounts. Unless he says otherwise here :)

    As @I LOVE my Choice! says, there is another thread "Off You Go" but that seemed to get hijacked and became full of prattle which detracted from the thread's prime purpose. It may be worth you trying to start another thread with the names and what they have been up to - maybe it can be kept clear of prattle by members just posting names of offenders with low discussion levels?

    As it is I am now contributing to detracting from your original post ;)

    Your English is fine, but I do note you have already picked up some interesting language :p (it seems less attractive words are invariably picked up first LOL) I am sure no one here would hassle you or give you any excrement about your language :p
     
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    Hmm. We need a better way for reporting fake dommes.

    The Off you go thread was great, but as mentioned, got derailed and went downhill.

    Hmmmm...

    For now anyway, send me a PM of the members you are having issues with.
     
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    I think it should be the OP who decides if it is a thread hijack or a descusion .
    . Xx Wendy
     
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    fake "domme" will always exist as other fake too. It's all about what can they get pretending to be "domme".
    i read a domme adv from fetlife, like 2 months ago. She simple said, she will put the sub to work around the house and the sub wont get back nothing at all . In short this domme was searching somebody who will work around her house free without asking anything.
     
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    How do I send a PM?
     
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    How to send a pm.

    Click on their profile and then start conversation .
    or
    In your own profile click start conversation and just fill in the box participants .

    However if you think a profile is dodgy just create a thread in a public forum and say you have been asked for money or you think it's not quite right .
    Then others can have a look or indeed say yes I have had an approach often via chat or pm .

    As soon as you are asked to go to another Web site or they have odd links in their profile always proceed with cation . NEVER give any personal details or part with money.

    As soon as they realise you are not stupid enough to give them money they will move on .

    It's a business so they need to earn money and when you are not going to give them a financial return on their time off they go .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    @mystique

    Hi Hunny
    we are perfectly capable of tracking people .
    It usually works that the photo of a high school cheer leader with a I P address in another country is enough.
    Let alone an image search reveals the true owner of a photo.

    The other big red flag is blokes can't type like girls.

    Xx Wendy
     
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