Have been lurking on this site and finally had the courage to write. I became intrigued by chastity a bit more than a year ago. I wore a steel cage for a couple of weeks but then dropped the idea for two reasons: it became painful but I also thought that the missus wasn’t that into it. Fast forward later this year. I bought a plastic cage but in less than a week I had to take it off Bec it was too painful. I’m on my third attempt have been wearing the cage for three days and so far so good. I’m trying to apply moisturiser cream every morning and evening to avoid the burning of the balls and foreskin. The wife also seems to be enjoying it a bit more this time wound. She does say that when I’m locked I’m more attentive to her needs not necessarily the sexual ones. I am in my late 40s and the wife is 52. She’s a stunner but with menopause she has lost quite a bit of her sexual libido. She’s also had a few Hotwife encounters with me present and once alone. Recently however, even that appetite has rescinded. my fantasy is for my wife to resume her Hotwife encounters while I am locked. I’d like to be present totally naked in my cage watching from a distance. I hope that the burning sensation doesn’t arise Bec I’d like to be locked for a longer period of time.