by Giles Coren - Not quite chastity, but quite interesting for the similarities... http://www.esquire.co.uk/culture/news/a9819/giles-coren-masturbation-farewell-to-palms/
What a fabulously well written article! I guess all guys have memories of their first piece of hand. I thought I had invented something heretofore unknown to humanity. There weren't any Playboy or Penthouse mags around, but I sure wore out the pages of the Sears and Montgomery Ward catalogs. Oh how beautiful those girdles and bras were! Hell! They still are! Ss
If I had started chastity earlier in my life, say, in my 30s, then giving up masturbating would have been a very different experience than it has been in my 40s. Even before I made my promise to my Wife I had begun to realize that masturbation wasn't fun anymore, that it was sad and lonely. That said it still wasn't very easy and I wasn't as addicted as the person who wrote this article!
What a wanker....he was... Shame his wife didn't lock him up after he was caught banging one out. Nice article by the way.
Pretty honest article. Those are all the words I could muster ... To judge the man would be to show the character of the judger .....
what an extraordinarily honest article! wow! Does his experience resonate with other men here? I didn't realise it could be such an addiction and so far into his life!
I wasn't quite as addicted as he was but the article certainly resonated with me. Men masturbate waaaay more than most women realize.
The answer is yes ... I know of guys from business travel that didn't mind being on trips so they could have the full privacy without worry about their other half catching them .... It is cheaper to wank off to exotic porn then get a divorce one guy said .... I really do think that the birth and marriage rates have dropped because of this ... I know it is tremendously sad but we do live in sad times ....
My addiction to masturbation is why I choose to lock myself up. I couldn't go a day without it. Weekends, 3 to 5 hours a day wasted on playing with myself. I love it. But have decided I waste too much time, there are a lot of other things in life other than playing with myself. Now I don't enjoy my penis everyday, which is an accomplishment as I'm doing this myself and this addiction has a hold on me. I do however enjoy the anticipation of when I'm going to take this thing off. I've figured out if I just enjoy the anticipation I can keep the cage on longer. My will power isn't great, but my masturbation sessions have decreased to 2 times a week. This past Saturday I only wasted about 45 minutes out of the day. I don't think anyone should give up masturbation, it's normal and feels awesome. But it shouldn't be the only thing you do on your days off. Everything in moderation, and my goal is to keep with moderation.