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    Hello, chastity word! I am Nella, a full-time mistress to my wonderful sub and husband. Though we both have done a lot of personal BDSM, Kink, and general sexual explorations, neither of us have been proactive in joining a community. Since it all started when my husband approached me about locking his cock in a cage, we thought it would be great to join a chastity community.

    I love being a keyholder, but getting to where I am now was not always easy. I dealt with some major guilt, self-doubt, humiliation, and downright horror when I first began holding keys. But in the end, becoming a keyholder has helped me become a confident woman. Instead of suppressing my Kink I explored it. Now, I'm a fantastic keyholder, a tantalizing Dominatrix, and an even better wife. Knowing who I am in our marriage and being able to explore all of this with my husband is amazing! I really hope I can help other people find the confidence to embrace their Kink, too!

    I would love the opportunity to form friends who like the same things I do!

    If you want to explore more about me and my Kink experiences, please visit my blog at https://www.talkmin.com
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Welcome, visited your blog and was well written and informative for those that may be curious.
     
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    WOW! Biggest praise! Thank you so very much. It is a newer blog, so the content pool is shallow. But I love all of my readers and their opinions/experience stories. If there is anything you'd like to share please let me know.

    And while my blog means a lot to me, my biggest interest is getting involved with a community I love and support...:) So thank you for the extremely warm welcome.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    We’ve been doing this almost 2 years so I am no expert, but I did fall in love with this community.

    It is nice for me to vent, share, and commune with others going through the same thing, or share some details that we just can’t share with others. My kh is a member here but usually just logs in to see what I’ve written or what I’m thinking.

    It is nice to be able to help others as well. Device recommendations and sizing issues are a common theme, and most of us have wasted a bit of time and money we might have saved if we would have just asked.

    Your blog intrigued me, we too have been playing around with the cuckold idea. She is skeptical about being able to separate it to just sex, an I really have no fantasy driven need for it to happen, so it is on the “who knows” list of things that may or may not happen. My thoughts on it are only that I would derive pleasure from her having pleasure that I could not physically provide. So far it isn’t something she isn’t comfortable actually doing for real, and we are fine with that, so you are not alone.

    Hope to see ya around
     
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    Mistress Jules Professional Dominatrix and Owner of Lockit
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    Welcome to the Mansion, I am sure you will find it is a friendly community always ready to chip in with advice. I look forward to catching up with you.
     
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    Welcome it is always nice to greet a new Mistress joining the site, your input will be greatly appreciated by many.
     
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    Breathe Be true to yourself

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    Welcome to CM from another social media 'newbie'. I'm seasoned in kink, but have limited experience with an active community based around those proclivities.

    My experience here has been lovely so far, and I hope the same will apply for you! :)
     
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    Thank you for the welcome! So far my experience here has been phenomenal! I always knew the Kink community was large but did not expect it to feel this welcoming! Being a 'newbie' is fun! See you around!
     
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    Thanks! I'm gathering that mistresses are less active on this site? I love the site! A wonderful community!
     
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    Oh no the majority of the Mistresses who take part on this site are really helpful and informative and you will certainly be made most welcome.
     
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    Oh good! I'm extremely excited to talk to other mistresses then.
     
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    Welcome @Mistress MIN . Its lovely to have another woman's perspective in the overly dominated male world of chastity.
     
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    Welcome and enjoy the fun.
     
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    Welcome. Hope you enjoy your time here, many people here are a wealth of information.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Welcome. You'll find all sorts of info and ideas here!

    I have tried to look at your blog but it requires me to register and to receive weekly updates from the site and I get more than enough junk email as it is. Why not put it on something like Wordpress which doesn't need this?

    J
     
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    Thank you for the welcome! That's interesting that you were not able to access Talkmin.com. It is just a standard website - you should not have to signup for updates to read the content! Totally free to read!
     
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    CZSteve Caged Submissive to my Beautiful Wife/KH n2toys

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    Hello @Mistress MIN and welcome.

    My Wife/Goddess @n2toys have been together for 20+ years.
    I've always been kinky and submissive but for some stupid mindset reason felt out of place communicating this; approximately 10 years ago I initiated some bondage play by tying my Wife to the bed - She does not enjoy being tied up but found She does enjoy dominating me and thus began our journey now; we've amassed a plethora of toys.

    I actually joined the Mansion several years ago as a lurker and a little over a year ago I broached the subject of my Wife locking me up - She responded with "I've wondered if you would that for me" - one of the best things we've ever done.

    I'm now approaching 6 months without a real orgasm and have never felt closer or adored my Wife more than I do now. :)
     
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    mch2323 A lost sub in Florida

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    Welcome Mistress Min!
     
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    Welcome, Miss Min, and to your husband, as well I hope!
     
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