Dominant mothers and the creation of subs

Yes, my mother was very dominant. After school, when all the kids would gather at the local hamburger joint, I always had to go home and do my household chores. Somethings never change.

 

My mum was/is very dominant, the first 5 years of my life I was alone with her, my father was working in the merchant navy, so hardly ever home.
When I was four, I was dropped at my great aunt. My mother went off with my dad for five months and sailed the world. When she came back I followed her to the toilet and sat in front of the door till she came out.
This and many other things have made sure that I am forever scared of being left behind. My aim is to please in such a way that the other party has no reason to leave me, but there is always the thought in the back of my mind that she will.

 

my mom and dad was ok till I sayed I wanted to be a girl and then we keeped having rows about it. thats when I went to Spain.

 

This was very similar with me as well.

I've never really thought about it before but my childhood was rather female led. My grandmother, who I lived with for a lot of my teenage years was very dominant. My mother ruled the roost at home and even my sisters felt it right that they came ahead of me in the pecking order. My father was never home (working away constantly) so the only examples I had were, basically, women.

I would never be allowed to go anywhere unless my chores were done and sometimes not even then. This went on until I was 18! Then I met a dominant woman and moved in with her. Things didn't really change then...and they haven't ever really changed.

Interesting topic.

 

My mother was dominant out of necessity as my father passed when I was 8 and there were 7 kids still at home spanning from 8 years old (me) to 20. I really don't think that had anything to do with it, it was just reality in a big Irish catholic family in the 1960's/70's.

 

Do you get along with your parents now or are you estranged from them?

 

Sounds like the John Lennon story.

 

I cast my vote no because she wasn't truly dominating. She did make a lot of the household decisions, maintained the finances and handled most of the discipline. That was all because my Dad worked long hours and wasn't around in the day or evening when things were happening.

From a discipline standpoint to my brother and me she was very strict. We both knew too well the feel of a razor strop. My sister saw a gentler side of her. I guess this might be a lot of the reason for me being a bit submissive to my wife. Also the reason I sometimes 'borrowed' my sisters clothes.

 

well I do go and see them at Christmas and some other times and I think they got use to me as a girl now.

 

Like gender identity, I think we are born dominant or submissive but there can be environmental factors that subdue or foster those innate traits.

 

I grew up in a family with 6 kids. There were simply not enough beds. I was the second youngest. My younger sister was one year younger than me. between 2 yo old to 12 years old, I as arranged to sleep at the tail of a big bed, which was shared by my parents and my younger sister.

You know what, that is when I developed my feet fetish. Before I knew it was in-appropriate, I formed a habit to hug and kiss my mother's feet while I slept.

That's sad.

 

Hi i'm relatively new here. My Mother is the Domiinant one in our family. i'm proud to be called a Mamma's boi

 

My mother was dominant, controlling and sexually repressed. Coincidentally or not I grew up as a bisexual submissive with a strong desire to be feminized. My wife finally recognized that and has transformed me into a sub shemale, which suits me perfectly.

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