Dominant mothers and the creation of subs

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Subs: Were you raised by a dominant mother?

  1. Yes, my mother was a dominant female figure

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  1. Ma’am M
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    I wonder whether submissive male tendencies have their root in dominant mothers. Was your mother a strict disciplinarian, domineering, or very demanding? Did she rule the household?

    I would certainly describe my subby’s mother as demanding and dominant. (As for me, my father was viewed as inadequate and my mother was the breadwinner, but perhaps this can segue into a separate thread for key holders).
     
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    Absolutely the opposite in my case
     
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    I think with social nurture, it will effect you but maybe in an oppisite way, My mom was dominant deep in side but represed , and my dad was very controling as
    well, but over bearing , so I think I sided with her and sissters I had sealed the deal for my submission, but it's complicated .
     
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    My mother kisses my fathers hands every holiday. She was not allowed to visit her friends or go shopping without my fathers permission.
    I think my father is the reason why i am submissive.
     
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    My mother was far from dominant. But my girlfriend 20 years ago.....
     
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    My mother did things that made me submissive . She also did things that allowed me to find my inner self and develops into what I am.
    What do I mean , it's like this. My dad left us when I was 7 . So all I had was mom. When I was good , I was rewarded, when I was bad , I was punished. The punishment included bare bottomed spankings. From this I learned embarrasement, humiliation , and submission.
    But one day Mom came home early from work. She caught me walking around the house in her panties , bra , stockings and heartfelt. I wasn't punished to my surprise , but was cautioned not to touch her personal things again or there would be a sever session with Mr. STRAP, and my bare bottom. I was 12 when this happened. Mom got me some panties, some bras and stockings. A dress and some other things. She told me if I needed to wear them , not to feel embarrased , and left it at that.
    I grew up with a good feeling about my sexual feelings , today I'm a submissive cuckold husband , and I love it.
     
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    I believe so. My mom ruled the house. Very dominant. Made us learn to cook, clean, sew, dishes, laundry, etc. she always let people know my name was to be Diana and that she wanted a girl. So I think she treated me like one.
     
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    My Ma was not dominant.
    But my grandma was. In the foreground she did let my father (her son) act as head of family, but in the background she was the one in charge. Grandpa had absolutely nothing to say .... and thats what he did.

    I am the youngest of us 4 siblings and Grandma died when I was about 13 years old. Even though she often did some really embarrassing and humiliating things to me, back then her mastering didnt feel wrong to me. She did what she did and I had no big comparison what there is going on in other families.

    I felt myself much more dominated by my sisters than by Grandma. So, even though grandma was the moving spirit (thats what I know today), there was more reason to me for critical thoughts on what my sisters did to me than what my Grandma did..

    Yes, today I know that Grandma was the one that teached and incited them to rule me. And sometimes to punish me. And humiliate me. Maybe she wanted to create female successors? I think so.

    I remember several ruthless situations making the order clear to me: first Grandma, then my Sisters, then sometimes Mom ..... and Mom completed the order only because she was a woman .... weak, shy, subserviant - but leastwise a woman.

    So my Mom sure was neither dominat nor in charge, she definitely was more on the submissive side, my father too.
    It seems my submission is handed down from my parents to me.

    I do not think Grandma and / or my sisters made me submissive. They only used my already existing submission to rule me and practice their sometimes weird humiliation games with me and they found a docile follower in me.
     
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    Interesting question and results so far @Ma’am M I voted for mother being dominant. I was surprised when I saw the results so far. Have to keep a watch on the results.
     
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    @Mash2214 yes I’m surprised as well, and fascinated. I assumed the majority would have dominant mothers.

    Thank you all for sharing your personal story. I know it may not always be easy or comfortable.
     
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    My father was definitely the dominant in our family and always has the last word. My mother is a much more gentle person. My sisters and I all ended up marrying partners that moreso had my fathers personality. He had a very stressful job when my sisters and I were growing up between the ages of 1 to 10 years old. I think that played a big part in all of our dispositions in one way or another.
     
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    I also think society as a whole is feminizing men. Look at TV shows where men are gay or submissive. It woman with the me too movement that need to be the one to start relationships, sex etc.
     
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    My mother was hardly present. I consider my early years and pursuit to please and prove my worth, the main reason I am submissive.
     
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    Interesting my subby also could relate to this search to prove one’s worth and need to please.
     
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    Society is slowly progressing. I’m not sure if it’s ‘feminizing’ men, but it certainly is calling out all of the asshole tendencies bought upon by testosterone coupled with a disrespect for women. And women are speaking out. Subs as a whole should be proud and regard yourselves as ahead of the game—indeed enlightened.
     
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    My mom is in charge but she isn't particularly dominant. Thinking about it, my dad would benefit from being put into chastity...
     
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    You have a point
     
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    Mine was dominant over me and my brothers because that was her day-to-day role, dad was away at work. She was sometimes unpredictably "bitchy" and would smack us. I learned to try to please her and stay away from the line, not always successfully.
     
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    I think reducing testosterone levels in men is a good thing. Keeping them in chastity and submissive to their wives is a great thing. Women need to step forward, take control, run society and make sure men take on a supportive role. Prosperity, peace and love would be the result!
     
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    I take it you've never known any woman who knows other women.
     
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    Not sure what you are telling me.
     
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    My Mom was very dominant ......no wonder i started crossdressing at age 6. :)
     
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    The most determining factor in a person's orientation is genetics, not environment.
     
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