I would REALLY love to hear from the Ladies/Mistress' and KHs on this one. I have watched quite a bit of porn over the years. I tend to look for the amateur / home made type, that usually pertains to FLR, Cuckolding, BDSM, pain and punishment. After reading, "Are You Guys Really Afraid Of Your Wife KH's punishments" , it got me to thinking. In many of the videos I've watched, the male or Female giving punishment to the Female clips, the male or Female doms seem to most always be striking harder and the female subs, being able to take the "harsher" spanking, whipping, paddling ect., with relative ease. When watching movies where the Female Domme is giving the punishment to the male sub whether it be spanking, whipping, paddling ect., the Female Dommes (most of the time) seem to be holding back. The males ass, back, legs, cock and balls are (generally) no where near as stripped, red or bruised as the Women who are the subs. One site I used to watch a good bit was Elite Pain.com It has Women as the subs and it looks brutal! To the point that the eroticism for me is lost. The premise for most of the videos is money. They get paid for just showing up and getting naked, say $200 then they play a game. The two that come to mind is Wheel of Pain and Cards of Pain. In these the woman spins a wheel or draws a card revealing a body part. (arms, legs, butt, back, palms, soles, pussy.) Then they spin again to determine how many strokes and of what instruments. ( flogger, whip, cane, belt ect.) With each spin they get $500 once completed. If they tap out / say they safe word or stop they loose everything. I am beyond AMAZED at what some of these women endure to either make it to the end or tap out early. I can honestly say that I have never seen a video where a male sub has taken much punishment at all before tapping out or giving up the safe word. Most are jumping about and either almost or full on crying. (BTW The Women in the afore mentioned videos do scream out and cry but seem to gather themselves and soldier on) The men on the other hand just do not seem as resilient. So I ask, do Women ACTUALLY have a higher tolerance for pain? What are your thoughts?