Last night was a play night for @n2toys and I; we had to skip last weekend and I we were both very horny and excited to play. Upon being summoned to our bedroom where I stripped and only wearing my cage, my Mistress took me into an embrace and very sensual hug while we were each rubbing on each other. My Wife reached down with one hand to grab hold of my/Her caged cock while we were hugging - the next thing I knew was it felt like I was literally peeing in Her hand, just standing there almost frozen with this strange feeling for what seemed liked a full minute. I was pretty sure I was not peeing as that would have caused a reaction from my Wife and I had literally just completely emptied my bladder as I knew I was about to spend an hour or two in inescapable bondage. Upon releasing our embrace and removing Her hand my Wife noticed a large amount of cum. She can often cause me to what we call 'spurt' - I'll spurt out a dollop of very sticky cum; this can be caused by either physical contact or even verbal comments, nowhere near an orgasm and something I've seen others here on the forum mention experiencing. This was a bit different; it went on longer and had the very distinct feeling of peeing and I had no idea that anything had come out, it felt just like being milked when my Goddess uses the nJoy Pure Wand on me. Anyone else ever have this feeling of being milked without either penile or prostate stimulation? I guess you could classify my Wife holding my caged cocked as penile stimulation but there was no rubbing stimulation, only a firm / sensual grasp.
I had a similar expression a few years back, before delving into chastity. I had been masturbating and stopped for whatever reason. Maybe 20 seconds later semen was running from me with none of the pleasure associated with orgasm or the strong muscular contractions. The semen was of a normal consistency and amount. I thought it was a ruined orgasm. I had never experienced anything like it before or since. Maybe in your chaste state, your arousal level and physical contact from your wife was enough to push your body over the edge without actually having an orgasm. How did you feel afterwards?
I have had a similar experience two or three times. Caged and cuddling standing up being enough. My wife is pretty amazed that cuddling alone is sufficient! The skin contact feels so intense when denied for sufficiently long that the male brain reacts in the only way it knows
@Adam444 Your description sounds like a ruined orgasm. My Mistress has given me many ruined-o's and has gotten very good at doing so - if it's a fully successful 100% ruined-o I do not get any orgasmic sensation and very little if any post-O drop. It may have been a ruined-o, milking, or somewhere in between... If so, it's the first time She's ruined me either while caged or without some physical stroking involved. On a side note - It's a bit ironic that the first time my Wife heard of a ruined-o Her initial response was "That sounds terrible!" Now that we've gotten deeper into orgasm denial She gets a tremendous thrill out of ruining me; She is damn near giddy when after a good 20-30 seconds after She has stopped stimulation that I'll ooze out a ruined-o, She thinks it's hilarious and pretty sure She feels a rush of being able to force my body into doing something I can't control. Even though I'm insanely frustrated in the heat of the moment after a ruined-o I'm later happy it was ruined as opposed to a real O so I don't have the post-O drop.
I've watched a number of ruined orgasm video's that don't seem to be true ruined orgasms. What I'm expecting is cum flowing out without the penis spasming but instead what I see is someone brought to the point of orgasm and being left alone to orgasm without any more contact. Looks like a full orgasm to me although I'm sure it is also frustrating and not as fulfilling as a full contact orgasm. Am I missing something?
I would imagine ruination takes many forms but I've pretty much have seen the same things you have. I think what the users describe here is bit less uncommon.
Yes, most of the porn videos I see, they stop stimulation when the orgasm starts. The trick is to stop stimulation 5 or 6 seconds before cum dribbles out. Longer if possible. I love it when I feel no pleasure and get to remain super horny. My wife always says "good" when I tell her I felt no pleasure. She is not being mean, she just knows that I want to remain super horny.
That’s exactly what I would like. I want the cum to flow but without the big orgasm or any of the letdown. For a long time I’ve wanted to be told to eat my cum but once I orgasm the urge is gone and I can’t seem to go through with it. My KH is with me but hasn’t yet gotten to the point of making me do it. I don’t want to tell her as that would be tipping from the bottom which I fight hard not to do. Not easy though.
that's my dream and further that I should be able to please her as long as she wishes and then sleep whitely without an urge for my own orgasm. will that day come
These sorts of “true” ruined orgasms are difficult to pull off (pun intended), because it is hard for her to know to stop. I’ve only had one, though we didn’t really practice to make that a goal.
My wife seems to know when to stop stimulation right before I cum, but when she says "spoil it for me", It's up to me to determine when to stop.
My Wifes favorite activity is allowing me to penetrate her from behind, her favorite position. I'll be begging for her to let me cum, and she continually tells me no. Every so often she'll tell me to ruin it on her back and lick it up. I've gotten quite good at it over the past 2-ish years. Perfect ruins. Sort of just feels like something flowing out the end. There is no "let down" afterwards and i eagerly lick it all up!
my wife too asks me to rub on her ass cheeks with my lock and cum there. after my this present locked up i have done it once but could not lick it up, since it's a long duration next time I may lick it up. btw I'm locked from Oct 27th and one ruined orgasm from lock as said above and one milking happened till now. no idea to open lock in near future.
A few weeks ago I was locked Securely while my gorgeous wife went out on the town with friends. I had to lock myself in front of her and hand her the key which she took out with her. I was unbelievably aroused and straining while she was out dying for her to come home. When she did we went to bed and teased and touched my cage and balls with the tips of her long nails. I was kneeling by her side pleasuring her while she lay flat. As I was doing this she was touching my balls lightly and the area just below them. I was unbelievably aroused and kept feeling like I I was cumming for 2-3 second bursts. When I’d finished we looked down and below me was pre cum but mixed with very light cum. There was a lot. I’d never cum like that before and it was like a long intermittent orgasm. My naughty gorgeous wife was delighted and decided to unlock me , making me sit and face the wall why she gave me her usual fantastic hand job with her right hand keeping her left clasped firmly over my mouth hand gagging me . Needless to say I didn’t last long. A really fantastic experience with a caged orgasm I’d never experienced
That sounds amazing and the gagged hand job facing the wall to top it off ! I’d be done in a few min or less at that point!!!! Thanks for sharing
It was very quick !! She likes to keep me quiet when I’m being relieved. Sometimes a hand gag or gagged with panties, tights/stockings or a large dildo. She also likes to talk to me knowing I can’t answer and I’m always facing the wall.
I love it it must be a total trip to be like that and her talking and turning you on while you silently face the wall and try not to cum to fast but so worked up it’s to late no turning back! Thank you for sharing