One of the best things about being caged and denied is how much more @n2toys and I hug and cuddle now. I'm constantly craving to be with my Wife and love to hug and cuddle whenever we can; we spoon at night when going to bed and very frequently fall asleep w/ my Wife holding me where She's the big spoon - I love it when She falls asleep first, I'll lay there contently listening to her deep breathing while She sleeps. In the morning I wake up first and literally cannot wait until it's time to come back into our bedroom to cuddle while She slowly wakes up. Prior to being locked up cuddling was always a means to an end to have sex, often where I got my rocks off and leaving my Wife longing for Her satisfaction... Now, cuddling is just that - it's being close to my Goddess and She is in complete control of if or when I'm allowed out of my cage.
I feel the same way as you . It takes love to the next step. Besides cuddling I love to give her a complete shower , from head to toe . The warm water and body soap. My hands all over her body. Oh Yeah !
One of the changes to our nightly routine is that my wife snuggles up next to me in bed and puts her head on my chest to go to sleep. I may or may not get some teasing as she drifts off. When I don't raise my arm and let her cuddle, she'll say "assume the position."
I love cuddling and wud do it all nite if I cud but when Mistress want to go to sleep She shoos me off. If im in my bed I cuddle my bear.
I agree...Now when we go to bad, my Wife(KH) will tease for a few minutes, roll over and tell me to snuggle up behind her. Most of the time my caged cock ride right into her butt crack...She will grind me for a few seconds, then fall asleep, leaving me throbbing in my cage . Some nights I fall asleep in that position...I love it...
I agree with all the above. In the past, all touching/caressing always led to sex, and usually ended with me satisfied and her not so much. Now cooking, showers, and the cuddling.....just wow!! Can’t figure out which way I like to fall asleep best, spooning (her in front), or with her head on my chest and her leg over mine.....
This is funny to me as I have always been very cuddly. And now that I am locked my KH sometimes complains about how much more cuddly I am. To the point she sometimes has to threaten punishment, then I back off quickly. But in the most part we both still love cuddling. Most nights we wall asleep twisted together like two octopuses next to each other! And she likes the fact when I am the big spoon, my pecker does not jab into her back.
Grinding her ass onto my cage... C does that too. We just talked about it tonight. Devious move, but its the best painful erection ever! #worthit ! I love cuddling. She calls me her giant lamb.
It's kind of funny, but before I embarked on this chastity / FLR journey, I would rarely cuddle with my princess. instead, we would go to bed and I would read for an hour or so. Now when we go to bed, it's lights out and we snuggle for an hour or so. I must admit, snuggling is much more enjoyable than reading. I can't believe it took me so long to discover what I pushes aside for so long... well, like they say "better late than never".
With both my wife and my keyholder, I've found that instead of feeling down about not having a huge amount of intimacy, I now cherish the simple things more, and get so much more from simple touch.