Hi, I'm Maree from New Zealand. I'm a MTF crossdresser married for 25 years (I'm 47). My wife is comfortable with my dressing but enjoys being made love to by me as a male, with bisexual fantasies often forming part of our conversations when doing it. I usually dress with makeup and wig plus clothing when I'm home alone or out of town on extended business trips. We have a mis-matched libido - I'm usually ready for sex any time and she is responsive and ready - when we have our 'scheduled' Saturday night sessions. I'm still the initiator and often she doesn't do anything other than occasionally grab my penis while I'm attending to her. Certainly no oral or any other attention there. As a result I've found myself masturbating a fair bit, and feeling guilty for it, and have been increasingly thinking of a chastity situation. The last two weeks when making love I have introduced talk of me being restrained while she was being serviced by another man and she responded positively. She is overseas for three weeks and gets back next weekend. I have been enjoying 'Maree time' and took the plunge and bought a CB6000S. I wore it on and off for 3 days plus nights, testing out different ring and spacer combinations and have had it on now for my first full 24 hour period. I haven't touched myself, had an orgasm or stood up to pee for 4 days and love it. I generally tuck and / or tape when dressed to remove sexual urges from the experiences but find peeing an issue when fully tucked and taped. Apart from the obvious bulge now I have sort of dis-joined from my penis which is a great feeling. I'm thinking of introducing the idea to my wife when she is still overseas. She is in a location that has restricted communication to text and messenger only and think if I tell her I have bought the device, have been saving myself for when she returns and suggest that she has the key and the power to control when I take it off she may start thinking about it and look forward to it. I believe this is a better thing to do rather than trying to spring it on her when she gets back or surprise her with a plastic thing hanging from my penis. I'll let you know how I get on. In the meantime please feel free to comment.