Chastity to cure chronic masturbation

True story.

Welp, onto week 2 of chastity for me. I am actually liking the changes it has already made in our relationship.

We are long married (30+ years), in our early 50s. I had always had a pretty bad habit of watching tons of porn, and then in the last 1 - 2 years, started leaving the marital bed early in the morning (5 am) to have extensive anal play sessions with myself in one of the spare bathrooms. I would do this most days, every week. Wife and I hadn’t had PIV sex in months.

Wife finally had enough of that and has put me in chastity and made a rule that I am not allowed to leave the marital bed without permission. We dabbled with short term chastity play a few years ago so we had some chastity cages in the toy box. I had always thought short term chastity play was hot, but the prospect of long term chastity and orgasm denial was quite scary. I also agreed my behavior was not healthy for our relationship, so although I was apprehensive, I submitted.

It’s not quite 24x7 chastity. We haven’t got the cage fit dialed in yet so it becomes painful to make it through an entire workday in the cage. Generally she lets me out mid morning with the rule that I am not to touch myself. Then back into the cage after work, or at latest, definitely before bed.

Our arrangement is a little different from many on these forums. It is "orgasm deferment" rather than "orgasm denial". Wife loves to watch me masturbate and really loves to watch me ejaculate. These are huge turn ons for her, so she would not be into extended orgasm denial for me. (I don't think? She may read this and change her mind!)

So at the end of week 1 of chastity she ordered me to bed, unlocked me, and ordered me to masturbate for her. “Come on my little subby, cum for me” she whispered in my ear. I tried my hardest, but we’d had a few drinks and things were not … coming along … quickly enough for her. “If you don’t cum in the next 10 seconds, it’s back in the cage for you and we can try again next week”. And then she started counting down … 10 … 9. Jesus christ, that was a total mind fuck. I was turned on and terrified at the same time.

I finally was able to cum at like 3 or 2 seconds. And holy shit, it was a porn star like volume of cum. All the way up my stomach to the top of my chest. 7 days without an orgasm is the longest I have EVER gone, since I learned I could masturbate at age 13 or whatever. So it seems to be true that ejaculate does build up over time.

Anyways, all of that made Wife insanely horny. She pressed my hand against her sopping wet pussy and said “see how wet that made me, baby”. She then grabbed the magic wand that was at the side of the bed, pressed it against her clitoris and directed me to suckle at her breasts. Still no PIV sex, but who cares! In no time she had a loud moaning orgasm so intense that she twisted onto her side, curled up into a ball, and lay there shuddering for 30 seconds or so.

So, we’ll see how week 2 goes!