Chastity is used for...

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  1. Alucard
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    I'm not a real sub because I don't like chastity at all; or am I because if a mistress orders me to go, I go to chastity?

    To sub or not to sub, this is the problem.

    In my case chastity is used as self chastity because I have a chronic masturbation problem that I try to contain.
    So I decide how and when to enter chastity and when to get out.

    Of course I would like a mistress to decide, but who assures me that she would then let me free? In truth, for contingent reasons, I have already used the drill to break several padlocks.
    So if he closed me for life I could always break the lock.

    But if I decide not to use force against the lock but rhetoric towards the mistress; it is not said that I would be able to free myself.

    Submissive, sub, slave, loser, beta, sissy.
    So many names and I don't like even one.

    What is the name of someone who would like not to want?
    I can't even call myself undecided because I know that's what I am.

    It is not my fault that what I am has no name.
    Perhaps I could call myself an "obedient", but with nothing to obey.

    What is chastity used for?
    Just to punish?

    Have a nice weekend!

    Saluti, Luca.
     
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    Hmmm.

    1) Chronic masturbation. If it doesn’t keep you from going to work or making love to your wife, I don’t see this as a problem.

    2) Do you need a label?

    3) Are you not a human being?

    5) A chastity device is a piece of bondage gear, to use how you wish just like any other piece of gear. Including as a paper weight.

    Your welcome.
     
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    Masochist - want what you don't want.
     
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    I self lock for better orgasms.
    Getting aroused while locked puts a strain on my dick that makes me even more aroused. i do masturbate a lot and it’s giving me shoulder problems…. I get around by massaging the the sides of my locked dick. Index and middle finger on each side. And I press in the root of my penis. Sublime feeling. Other sensations. Better ones.
    i think you like a challenge and you are bored with conventional sex. Just go with it. I’m not a sub either. I understand. No la les for me. Just great arousal and sex.
     
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    Even though the I love the thought of being caged and denied orgasm, I will jerk off the first chance I get. The cage goes back on within hours of it coming off. Otherwise, when the Mrs is ready for sex, I won't be.
     
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    Chastity is whatever you want it to be. There is no “real” of anything in BDSM. You can call yourself whatever you want. Why is the need to give yourself a name or be something or someone… If you dont want to masturbate get a PA ring or but yourself a full metal chastity belt. If you cant do any of those then enjoy every moment of it. At the end chastity is created to make people happy.
     
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    Ciao, amico mio.

    I'm the same, I'm not particularly submissive.

    I don't enjoy chastity.

    But there are still benefits to be gained. Like controlling masturbation. In that sense it acts like a buddy system.

    Additionally, volunteering to submit to my wife, even if we both know I can break the device, even if we both know I'm not submissive in any other way, just that act of volunteering is a gift to her that helps build closeness and trust.

    I'm giving up something for her.

    I don't know what I'd call it. But that's how I think about it. I'm choosing to give up control to my wife for our mutual benefit.
     
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    I agree!
     
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    I use chastity for more than une purpose.

    1. Security-It keeps him faithful even when he's had a few.
    2. Security-Husband's not allowed to play with My Property. Only I'm allowed to play with it.
    3. Discipline-When husband disobeys me, there are consequences.
    4. Enforcing My Authority-If I say he's in chastity, he's locked up. I don't have to give him a reason.
     
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