Chastity and using bathroom.

Well yes, with regard to public toilets , I expect you will be experiencing all the same issues.

 

Yes Miss Amanda I’ve become more understanding to what you Ladies have to deal with.

 

I do think I was capable of sufficient "aim" to avoid spray and splatter and was considerate enough to leave seats down...…..but I confess that the public toilets I see are all too often as described and make me ashamed of my sex in general...….(Males! Can't we do better?)

 

My device allows for standing with a bit of adjustment. Though I sit sometimes as it's easier, doesn't bother me or feel fem at all. In reality lots of men none chaste men sit to prevent splash back so there's no pants speckles.

 

Nope, not for me. Hope this clears that up.

 

That’s what makes life exciting we can agree to disagree. Their is more than one way to enjoy having a device locked on your privates. Their is No Rule Book. What’s right for you is right and what right for others is also right just different. Thanks for your response

 

For that reason i will oftentimes use the women restroom if i can do so discreetly

 

Sitting / Standing.... You're doomed as soon as you step foot in the gents.

 

LOL-my beautiful wife/KH has said almost exactly the same thing as Mascara^Snake. And, yes it was perhaps a bit emasculating at first, which actually added to the excitement of chastity for us, But that waned pretty fast. Now I don't think twice about it. I use a stall in public restrooms-no big deal. The stalls in public Men's rooms are rarely busy, no there's not really a problem.

 

Since I got a PA piercing done and work toilets are too far away most of the time (we have to go somewhere discreet ) I found that a disposable cup is a great way of still being able to stand for a pee without covering myself in it (make sure penis is inside the cup obviously )

 

I dont think thats a good idea at all.

 

You raise a valid point and to be honest if you are going to be getting let out all the time what is point in being in.

And you are right the longer you have been locked then of course you will develop strategies for dealing with potential issues.

 

I don't think so either ... are you mad? ... do you want to be arrested?

Think about it ..its not that hard to come up with some strategies thatboth suit you and allow you to urinate with the minimum of distress and discomfort.

 

It is a PITA, but when I’m locked I just don’t have a choice.

 

Our strategy has been that if it's negatively affecting our quality of life then it's not working. I meet up with friends for a night out every month or two, I'm not going to be cheating and am capable of not jacking off in a toilet stall for an evening. Just pop the cage back on when I get home.

 

I can say with confidence that my wife/KH does not care very much how I pee. If I bring up the fact that I have to sit to pee I think she finds it kind of amusing in the moment, but I'm quite sure it doesn't enter her mind often otherwise...

Truth is, in chastity or not, if I'm at home or in a place where I can easily sit to pee, I do. Always. It's easier, it's cleaner for everyone, and I have a rather small penis, especially flaccid, so sitting and sticking my finger down there to aim my tiny nub downward is much, much easier than trying to stretch it past my pants fly and make sure it aims straight and true, which it sadly does not always do.

Nonetheless, when I'm not in chastity I can often manage to pee at a public urinal, but not always without some trepidation about my very tiny thing spraying in such a way that it will end up on my pants.

Chastity forces me to sit to pee in public, which I don't love. I am a bit obsessive and disgusted by public toilets. I do everything I can to empty my bladder before we go out, and in many cases I hold it as long as humanly possible, and very, very rarely do I have to pee in public in chastity.