For some of us chastity is more then a kink, it's a life style and we wear the cage to everything. But in life there times that you can't predict, maybe you got comfortable and lowered your guards or maybe you done everything right but life has other plans. Do you guys ever got caught wearing the cage by accident or by lack of safety ? How you felt in the moment ? And how you managed to deal with it ?
Never have, but it is a lifestyle my princess and I decided upon. So while we don't flaunt it to others, likewise we wouldn't be overly stressed if someone found out. It's our lives, others can accept us (warts and all) or not, it's totally up to them...
I had a coworker ball-tap me with a bottle of vodka and it went "clunk!" instead of "ow!" and I don't know what he thought of it or even if he noticed. That's it. After more than a decade that's all I got.
I wear mine all the time and acknowledge its also a kink. It maybe a lifestyle but it's still a fetish. Do yourself the favor of not deluding yourself.
If your not manly its a fashion statement, I`m not a stud and can not be one so I`m looking for a new approach for people to accept me for who I am. Otherwise I fear I might not be desirable by anybody I wish to attract. My kind..
Been in a cage almost every day for nearly 20 Years now, Madam and I are in a lifestyle bdsm/flr relationship and she enjoys knowing others know I’m her sub. I’m open about being into bdsm but don’t go into details unless asked. When we’re out together i Normally wear one of my bdsm/chastity shirts and my collar but as far as chastity goes there’s a few times I got outed as it was. First time I was at a hospital appointment and had to strip for uvab treatment, went behind the curtain and nurse instructed me to put my sock over my junk before entering the booth, as I pulled off my sock I lost balance and fell backwards through the curtain landing flat on my back, naked at the nurses feet, we both just froze and her eyes were locked on my pink cb2000 even as I got up and went behind the curtain! She must of told her colleagues about it because the next appointment I had it was a different nurse doing the session and she couldn’t stop looking at my groin the whole time! Another was a co worker caught me off guard with a “prick flick” and he got the hard tap of plastic instead of soft flesh he said “what the hell?” I lifted my shirt to show my phone in my belt case and told him he hit it, he accepted it. And the last was when a female co worker told a packed break room I was in a cock cage! I’ve explained in detail before what happened but basically she was also in to bdsm and a Dom, we had had several conversations about bdsm but I’d never told her I was chaste, she just recognised the outline in my trousers. And During break they had starting discussing kinks and I entered, and within a couple of mins she told everyone what I was wearing.
I only wear my cage at home, since that’s the only place where I’m liable to “lose control” of my urges. It’s both a kinky game and a means of self-control for me. I can’t wear it to work, since I need to be highly mobile at my job and I don’t wanna risk possibly injuring myself or having to slow down my pace from the cage getting in the way. I dare not try to get release at work anyway. Public restrooms are horrible! I’ve been playing this game only for a few months so far and I’ve been careful about keeping it discrete. There was one time a couple weeks back when I kind of dodged a bullet… I accidentally left the key in the bathroom and a family member found it and asked who it belonged to. I told them it was mine and it was for a lockbox I keep in the safe. They bought it and did’t ask any further and I thanked them for finding it and returning it. Phew!