Best ways to increase hornyness & frustration in chastity

I have a very strong foot fetish. Massaging her feet in the couch ot she'll let me kiss her feet while she reads a book in bed makes me very horny for hours! Simply delicious!

 

Being left alone with no stimulus is an easy way to get over any frustrations, after a while it just becomes the norm.
Normal sexual activities but with instruction not to cum. Or stopping before you’ve been able to. Or being told to and then had the KH change their mind… that’s pretty frustrating.
Anything where you dribble anything out gives some relief.
P-gasm (as you call it) it’s a one stop shop for chastity frustration.

 

For me, it’s the not knowing when I will ever be let out - she said it might be after she has had 8 cums… but she’s had none this week - acid reflux for her really kills the mood.. she started her period today so that’s another week out… She does give me the occasional tap on the cage during the day, and says “good boy” which is enough to get him horny and leaking… so as long as that sort of physicality can continue whilst she’s not in the mood… that is at least something… but it really does seem I am in gonna stay caged for a while.. 30 days at this point… we managed 50 once but she seems firmer these days… am horny as hell as we speak, so who knows how I will be if we keep this up (so to speak!)…. Still fun though…

 

The worse frustration for me is when she lies next to me in bed, rests a hand on my waist, lowers it slightly nearer my groin, but never actually makes contact with my cage. It's so frustrating that the elusive touch can be felt, but not where it matters.

Then sometimes, she slaps my balls fairly hard just once, rolls over and goes to sleep.
That's just as frustrating, there's been contact but being unexpected it's gone by the time you realise it's there. Then it's no more. Arrgh! (but such a pleasurable "Arrgh!", it's almost completely unexplainable).

 

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It's frustrating that. Dead hand, then you feel nothing. Then she's asleep. Lol.

There is a game, that I asked my wife to play, and it can turn it around for me.

She grabs my cage as usual but the agreement is, that if she makes me groan then it's game over, hand comes off. Time for sleep. It can become a sleepy battle of wills. She's trying to make me groan, and I have to relax through it, which gives me far more relief and satisfaction than the frustrating dead hand. I even goaded her last night. "I'm gonna win"

I did win, as I don't remember her letting go or me falling asleep. It is very relaxing

 

When she touches me all around the cage, it's incredibly frustrating! I'm practically begging her to touch my cage. But even when she does, I can't feel anything which makes the frustration even worse!

 

Time
Sheer time in total denial

 

Ok, it sounds cliche but porn. My wife loves putting on my favorite porn while I'm caged and has me help get her to orgasm, then we stop. This is an amazing little trick to keep sexually frustrated.

 

Things that increase my horniness:
- caressing the cage and my testicles.
- nipple play - from light squeezing to harder pulling.
- uncaging me for an hour every few days but denying me from touching my erect penis.
- uncaging me and edging me.
- uncaging me and letting stroke my own cock but telling me when to stop and go.
- telling me to put the cage back on after a brief unlock.
- pleasing my keyholder. Be it sucking his cock, eating his load, or telling him "thank you sir" when he edges or tortures me.
- him playing with my caged cock while reminding me when my last orgasm was, how safe my cock is because of the cage, and telling me the soonest or longest it will be till I get to cum again.

 

Being fully dressed in fem and securely locked in steel NUB makes me horny, submissive, and is so frustrating. The cage has electronic devices within so KH can use to produce pleasure or pain so sissy must obey. Sissy must serve KH who enjoys the power and pleasure of having the perfect little sex slave.

 

I love watching porn in chastity, matter of fact that's been kinda the only way I've been watching porn this year. The increase of denial/frustration has heavily influenced my submissiveness significantly - to the point in which my overall porn consumption has altered. I have a very diverse porn habit in which I watch everything from bondage/bdsm, trans, sissy, femdom, non nude, etc. However being more heavily involved in chastity - I've been consuming much more femdom, sissy, censored/beta-safe porn.

I had a good maybe 2 months strech earlier in the year in which I was able to edge myself for 1-2 hours without cumming and then putting myself back into chastity... that was super fun... but very devilish.

I also realized that psychological/verbal stimulation seems to be very effective for me. I've been to a good amount of femdom/sissy parties this year and every time I play with doms/ppl I've noticed that indirect stimulation has been much more invigorating than direct stimulation to my arousal.

 

My wife teases me in the cage til I'm dripping, and then she says there now be a good Boi. Or in bed she will back up to me and rub my cage with her ass until I Stat moaning and then she says good night.

 

She teases me with touch all over without removing the cage:

• nipples
• armpits
• inner thighs
• scrotum
• back of my knees
• ears (w tongue)
• everywhere else

After 10-15 minutes, I'm a moaning, dripping, quiveriing mess. She holds me for a few minutes until I settle down, stop moaning and my breathing returns to normal.

 

I get the occasional verbal teasing, but even less physical teasing from her.
Sex with us is all about her pleasure, I give foot massages, caress her and give oral.
I get lots of satisfaction from making her happy, and afterwards she often asks "Are you ok?" to which the answer is truthfully always positive.

Now that my chastity is our normal, the "frustration and hornyness" isn't so much, it's more a steady and continual state of blissful contentment. Yes I get excited when we have sex (me performing oral on her), and I often get close to feeling an orgasmic level myself when she climaxes, but frustrated? no, it's not that at all now.