Best explanation of what ruined orgasms are

What I consider a ruined orgasm is not really ejaculation either. The emission is different, more akin to a prostate milking. The discharge is homogenous in consistency, translucent, slippery, but not very viscous. It is followed by an intense urge to orgasm, which passes within a minute. There is no refractory period, no endorphins, and the only relief is that from the release of retained fluids. It feels like urination. I find it extremely difficult to accomplish multiples in a session, or even on subsequent days, as I'm on a hair trigger afterward.

 

I am in complete agreement that ejaculation and orgasm are separate things. You can have one without the other.

A ruined orgasm is just ejaculation without the orgasm.

In my expererience a ruined orgasm can range from feeling like a runny nose, to feeling like a stolen orgasm. So sometimes it can feel like nothing at all, and sometimes it can feel slightly orgasmic. With any ruined orgasm the feeling of fullness associated with not having a release is diminished.

I prefer no orgasm to ruined orgasm, as I feel a ruin is a waste of vital bodily fluids and sexual energy.

Instead, I am aiming for orgasm without the ejaculation.

 

The clue is in the name. Ruined, as in not fulfilling, still craving afterwards, not enjoyable.

And lots of different ways to do them.

Abandoned, just as you think the orgasm is here, she stops and your cock splutters out some cum and then you cock twitches back into submission whilst you want.

Not going to repeat other threads on the subject.

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Ruined I'm my opinion is when they stop just before you cum and without the explosive part or sensation, they hold on just enough so that the seamen still spills out but without any satisfaction.

 

I’ve started craving ruins more this year than full orgasms. And my Wife has had fun seeing if she can give them in different ways, or make me ruin them myself. Having piv and pulling out without going too far is extremely difficult and intense! It takes a great amount of self control lol
Her favorite way lately is using one or two fingers on the frenulum and seeing how fast she can have me begging to cum, usually only takes a minute.
She’s got me trained well, I can still give her piv without numbing cream for 20 minutes or more without an issue, but with her hand she can have me a shaking, begging mess in less than 2 minutes

I’ve only had a few full orgasms this year, we’re both enjoying my attitude and mindset using ruins instead. I get some relief but get to stay in the proper chastity subspace