Best book on FLR

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    Perfect, thank you!
     
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    OH! Every time I read that title, I think of the “Real Women Don’t Pump Gas” book from the 80s.


    I haven’t read it.
     
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    Sent you a private message.
     
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    Thanks, I'll certainly look at that and point her towards it. Sounds like a useful resource.
     
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    Can't see one from you.....
     
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    Looking up She Makes the Rules now!
    Thank you for the great suggestion.
     
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    I just looked this up as well and it doesn’t seem like I can access the forums?
     
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    What forums? I searched it and found it on Good Reads - described thus and looks useful.

    "Balancing both spouse's needs in an unbalanced power partnership.
    This book is a useful resource for any couple seeking to enhance their relationship and not only about the kinky side. It talks about how dominance and submission can be introduced in a thoughtful way to create a renewed and exciting partnership. It is a realistic approach promoting that both partners get involved to meet both needs met even if it is the female partner who is Dominant. Establishing an FLR is not a one-sided game but a relationship that will address the couple's needs. A truly satisfying book, full of sound reflections that will benefit any type of relationship."
     
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    I appreciate the input! My first Google search brought me to a forum website.
     
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    I agree, but even if written by a female, they tend toward male fantasy to sell books
     
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    Yes, in some ways I see that in some of these. It's a real problem actually and certainly a problem for Women like my KH who want to read up and learn from a purely Female perspective....
    That said, there must be publications that acheive this. It's the old porn versus reality issue.
     
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    This seems impossible to track down online and all/any links to purchase/download fail if I find and follow them.
    I noticed that searches also bring up another book of the same name that is a fictional piece - not to be confused with.
    Suggestions of any working source greatly appreciated.
     
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    @Chaistey
    Books are great - the more I reads the more well-rounded I become.

    I also find a lot of good articles on chastity device websites.

    Like books, there are some good ideas & some ideas that are stretchers.
    I have come to believe in taking what you want & leaving the rest - like a salad bar.

    Here are but a few of hundreds ...

    https://chastitydevice4u.com/

    https://lockedinlust.com/

    https://cuttothechaste.net/useful-links/

    These are more Chastity oriented - but have an undertone of FLR (outright or reading between the lines). Hope this helps & happy hunting.
     
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    check again
     
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    If you scroll down a bit there’s a message about signing up to view the forums. I guess they don’t allow for guest accounts.


    https://shemakestherules.com/
     
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    I tried signing up and it still didn’t seem to work. Something about not having enough support.
     
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    Thanks but we're good with the chastity. It's simple - locked, full stop.
    It's a deepening of an already started FLR that my owner wants to research from the Female perspective.
     
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    Ah! It's a website and not a book! Therein lies the problem. That said, it looks like a good resource so I'll point my S.O. to it. She can browse... thank you!
     
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    Got it now, thanks - responded.
     
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    Logged back into the mentioned website. The forums are working now
     
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