Being tied and helpless...

I never really had much interest in tying my husband. When I was his sub all those years ago I used to love being tied, and if I am honest I still crave the helplessness of it.
When we went down the chastity route it was only a matter of time we evolved into me getting a Bull. And thats another story....lol
Anyway, Mark my bull is a lovely guy. And he came up with the idea of tying Weenie to a chair in my room so he had to watch Mark and me. As you probably know, I love the humiliation part of being Domme. And yes it does give me great pleasure in making Weenie see just what he is missing.
He tends to look away, so I have instructed him to make some kind of contraption that will hold his head looking forward at all times, and also stop him looking down. So he is FORCED to watch his wife with her Bull....

 

Being truly physically at a woman’s mercy, controlled by her to the point where “resistance is futile,” is incredibly arousing to me.

 

This is one of my fantasies but I doubt that it becomes real

 

Being tied up and helpless by a female was one of the very first fantasies of mine even before I knew what BDSM was. I fondly remember when I was in my late teens and convinced my then gf to tie me up. All she did was took a string and tied my hands behind my back, and I immediately hard as a rock.
Being tied up is such an amazing feeling. The more constricting and uncomfortable the better.

 

Beeing tied up ist the only for me to really cum. Everything else is mor ruining it for myself.

 

Being tied up was one of the first kinks I discovered, and I guess the idea of having my dick restricted in a chastity cage is a way to play out that kink 24/7.

I still love to be tied up now and most of the time the cage stays on. It’s amazing how sensual and exciting a tease can be when tied spread eagle to the bed. Each time I am told to tie myself up and then she will come in to check it’s tight enough. Sometimes she will tease me then but others she will leave me. Yesterday she left me for 2 hours tied to the bed with clover clamps on my nipples connected to my cage by a chain. When she came back she gave me a deep kiss and then released me saying that I would just s have to frustrated until the next tease. My nips are still sore today reminding me of the experience every time anything brushes on them.

I find the whole experience exciting and relaxing at the same time. It’s kind of a meditation being completely in the moment with my cock straining its in cage and my nipples burning with the clamps, just waiting for my Queen to play with me.

 

Yesterday I took it upon myself to tie myself spread eagle on the bed. I love being tied up, and wish Miss would do it a lot more often. When Miss found me she was very upset, and I got a lot more than I expected. She twisted and pulled on the clover clamps I had on my nipples. When she took them off she pinched and pulled with her fingernails, and sucked and bit them harder than normal. Then she proceeded to use the leather paddle on my balls, and she didn't take it easy either. I was told over and over she makes the decisions when I get tied and teased, not me. My nipples still hurt a little when I touch them, and my balls ache constantly.

 

I love it.
And for me it has a lot to do with trust.
And loss of control which is delicious.
You actually gave yourself to your partner.

 

I hope you post a picture of the contraption

 

Or he could get a posture collar

 

Yes I enjoy it. Especially with furry handcuffs then get blindfolded and they start using a feather or something to slowly go down your body with its more of the unknown what will happen I tend to like. Also being strapped to the bed and being used is fun aswell or teased but only lite bondage for me though but it's always a fun time if both people are into it.

 

My Mistress often ties me spread eagle to the bed and makes me listen to femdom hypnosis over and over. She considers this to be a necessary part of my training and will sometimes do it daily for weeks on end.

 

May I suggest:

 

It's funny how the colors of the real world only seem really real when you viddy them on the screen.

 

The feeling of being restrained and helplessly under the control of a powerful woman is incredibly exciting. I see being caged as a mobile extension of this submission and feminine control.

 

Fine idea, my little droogie!

 

Mmmmmm that will do nicely. Poor Weenie. Seeing what he will ever have again.

 

On the subject of suggestions, I was chatting with Mark (my bull) last night. He said he saw the post on here about me making Weenie make some contraption to hold his head so he could not look away.
Mark said there is an easier way, ready made. He sent me a picture of this.


Apparently it has a small TV screen inside and gets live pictures from a tiny camera. We chatted about strapping it to Weenies head and spread eagle him out on his bed and he will have no choice to look at the TV while ever his eyes are open. I asked if it had sound? Mark said no, but we could still use the baby monitor, so he had to listen and had to watch, no matter what position he moved his head.
And he also said as a bonus it actually makes a recording of the event
Looks like a win win in my opinion.
Also id=f I made him wear it while he was tied to his chair in my bedroom I think I would find it quite erotic watching him move his head side to side and up and down, but the picture is STILL there no mater how much he does not want to watch.....I could even point the camera back at him and let him see just how pathetic he looks....... All good fun.

 

How you force him to keep his eyes open?

 

I concur with the feeling of being tied up, but not at all re. constricting and uncomfortable. I’m not disparaging your likes, to each his own, but to me the arousal comes totally from her control and my helplessness in her hands. Constriction and discomfort would actually undermine that, divert my attention and feelings to the pain, which is not a turn-on at all for me.

From your comment about being “hard as a rock" merely from your girlfriend tying your hands behind your back with string, it seems that you can understand the arousal from control without the discomfort as well.