Anyone locked for December?

I’m fairly sure I’m locked through December. I locked up on November 19th and unlocked once for cleaning.

Saturday our trial period ends and Sunday starts the official chastity. @LadyL has added rules and punishments. She is determined to set me straight. Only she knows when. She has taken the kid gloves off.

 

Just a couple really. Adding nightly foot massages and stop bad mouthing her sister. She also suspended the CFnm for the winter.

 

This is interesting. It seems like when one goes down this path, the release 'schedule' is important (I think that's also the time that guys start writing contracts). However, as time goes on, I think the power shifts to our partners and many of them prefer not to keep a schedule but rather do it when they feel like it.

I know for us, we dumped the schedule a while ago and now, it can be a couple months followed by 4 days of constant coming. I still ask her occasionally and her answer is usually an evasive 'well, it's up to me not you but it might be quite awhile'. This simple sentence sends lightning bolts through my body.........I suspect she knows that.

 

Suspended CFnm! Just turn the heating up!

 

I've been thinking about this for a few days now. I'm IN. I'm going to try to extend my lockup until at least Jan 1st. I haven't had an O since the beginning of November. I've been locked in my Queens Keep since Nov 30th with the exception of an hour yesterday for a waxing appointment. I don't foresee any other reasons it needs to come off this month. My current record is 60 days, I want to at least beat that.

 

I have been locked since August 25th.
Allowed out for an inspection and thorough clean and shave on Oct 23 which was also last orgasm. A real quick rub which lasted about 30-40 seconds.
Been locked every day since. So all of NOvember and up to this point in December and i see no indication that i will be unlocked at all.
So basically one cum over the last 3 months
December 25th Christmas Day will be 4 months to the day of chastity.
I have ridden the roller coaster of being desperate to cum and finding the cage a real pain in the ass to enjoying the denial.
Now i feel i am at a point where the thought of being let out and cumming is distasteful.
I really desire to finish out the year caged and start 2020 in chastity maybe 2020 will be the year of no orgasm at all.

 

yes tis but and eating as well.

 

Only been out to shave and clean this month

 

As an encouragement and affirmation of all of the rest of the people in this here thread, i tried to do Locktober and failed, miserably, due to chafing and then feeling far too discombobulated to lock up again in November. i locked on 1 December, at 0925 (i had locked the night before, but was weak in the bath) and hope to make the full month. Which, and this is very male, is a bit pants when reading other contributions.

i managed 8 days back in September (starting 24 September) but my record is 61 days back in February of this year. i managed another 42(?) or so around May time. i am hoping, somewhat strangely, to last beyond the next few weeks at least. Maybe i can make it to beat my record! Without a KH that's going to be hard, but with all of your examples, maybe i can motivate myself!

 

I'm locked from 1 "NO"vember, because my new chastity cage came to late for our first Locktober. Her initial plan was to give me an orgasm at 30 november at 24:00 exactly, but She didn't and I'm still locked. She suggested yesterday a new plan; ending this year with serious cum blasting firework. I didn't suspected a denial of two complete months.

 

Thank you. The device i have was fine back in February. The chafing then was due to user error after a clean. Also, it was 51 days, not 61!

The second run, at 45+ days, had no such issues.

i hear your advice, and appreciate it, but the device i have is pretty good. User error last time (the 8 days) was the issue - hence the frustration on my part. Things are looking far better this time round!

Eventually i hope to save for and spring for a better device, but this one seems to work well when being used carefully!

 

That last bit about "a serious cum blasting firework" brings back memories! Way before Chastity on new years eve, we were at home on our own. We were having fun on the living room carpet and we "fucked the new year in"! Something that we always remember. No chance of it happening again!! Unless it's with me wearing her strap on! Now there's a thought! Won't be this year but who knows what the future may hold!

 

Now there's a thought! Not our thing though to be honest!

 

Agreed, it is important not to have unrealistic expectations. Also, it's worth pointing out, i have been lucky so far and i am aware of that. It is important, i think, to realise that my own situation is very much honour based - i have the keys after all, so i can test my own limits and, if chafing occurs, i can stop instantly and feel frustrated. It's not nice, but it's healthy.

No matter my hopes and aims, if there's pain and problems, i have to stop - that's incredibly important.

In my own situation, *not* working up was a bit of a help, but i am not your usual kettle of fish and i know it's not usually a good idea at all. i shan't ramble on here though!

No physical issues down there whatever now, and they were never that bad, just bad enough to warrant a rest. the last one in early October wasn't actually *that* bad, but i didn't want to risk it. The long wait afterward was down to other issues rather than physical. It all healed after about three days.

 

Locked until January 1, other than cleaning and going to gym

 

I noticed another little change on our journey...
For the last year, my sweet wife who I still think of as being very vanilla, was bold enough to have a day counter app on her smartphone, and one little ritual I'd have whenever a new chastity session started was to set the counter on her app back to zero. But the last two times she didn't ask me to, and I've noticed the counter has been uninstalled from her phone's desktop.
Does this mean she's going off the idea? No, not at all, she's extremely comfortable and happy that I'm in chastity. It's more likely that she's just not counting the days any more, after all, now that my default condition is to be locked up, what's the point?

 

I had an unauthorized climax in Nov (post), so I'm done until Jan 22, at the earliest.