Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by Samir, Sep 19, 2020.
Is there anyone's KH who's housewife and enforces you to do both outer work and house chores?
The concept is appealing, but I don't think it's practical, not unless the wife/GF is loaded and can afford to have the husband do some low-level job of her choosing just for the the kinky fun.
My kh lost her job 3 months ago and now She's doing some freelance works only. She does most of the house chores since I do full time job. She is not enforcing me but I am thinking that I should help her more but it's barely possible due to lack of time.
Sorry to hear that. Maybe the government should give the guaranteed basic income to FLR couples in order to encourage more kink
We’re pretty much in the same boat, my mistress was laid off back in March and stayed home because the schools were closed and our son was home too. We have a pretty good system but she does a lot of the household chores since she’s there and I’m not. Usually I’ll do the cooking but she’s been doing more meal prep so when I’m home from work I can put it all together so we’re not eating late. She’ll probably go back to work in the next month and I’ll take on more household chores at that point. Right now we just focus on my pampering of her when we are finally alone at the end of the night.
My husband isn't forced into anything. I find the dynamic you describe not sound very healthy, a normal FLR is a consensual arrangement where one party chooses to submit to the other. Forcing is never something I would endorse or accept even as a sub.
I am a homemaker, but I have disabilities. My husband has chosen to accept me as a partner, and as a result of that does some homework on top of his job because I am unable to do it. I do what I am able to do as my part of the bargain.
we are very similar, I work, my madam does not, she does most of the day today house keeping and cooking, she enjoys cooking and says I make a mess of it anyway, I do all the washing up and the vacuuming as madam detests both chores. mid I am a day off, I will strip the beds and Jen orders to, madam will load the washer, she doesn’t trust a man to put it on the right setting or use the correct detergent! When it’s done I will load the drier, or hang the washing, weather permitting. If the latter I am responsible for keeping an eye on it and the weather, and bringing the laundry in. Madam will check it is dry and then I will fold and put it all away. Oh and I clean the windows to, another task my madam detests! I also handle the gardening, cutting the lawn ect. And the DIY.
She's not forcing, I described.
You used the word 'enforces' so it's interesting you say it wasn't forcing after all.
Consider this comment @MRS.Lilith
Above I asked if anyone's forced to do so..but I am not.
We tried until last summer but it was not practicable,
wake early and go to work, do chore at home, statifying her, takes cares of kids and shopping.... try to sleep a little.
it was not possible professionaly to do this, we had to split chore again and I do less but it is the price to keep my job (as she does not work) as I need some rest anyway.
I guess that when retired it is a lot more easy to do.
We split responsibilities, no true master/slave relationship. She is the dominant one in our sex life, or things relating to tease, chastity, and bdsm. I am retired, she still has her business so I have the time to do more. She will do the food shopping and some cleaning (dusting, kitchen, and wash, I will do bulk shopping, vacuuming, and household maintenance. We do yard work together and many construction projects.
The only thing I am "forced" to do is arrange and clean the play room. I am responsible to straighten up and place all the toys and equipment back in place, sterilize and insert able toys, and make sure the room is spotless. She will do an inspection and grade me on the quality of the task performed, in 4 years I only failed the inspection twice and paid the price.
I am lucky enough to be retired, and so i do all the housework and most of the cooking for both my KH Wife and MIL. Wouldn't have it any other way!
We both split the duties broadly evenly but theres limited hard and fast rules, only thing that really gets under her skin is the laundry. If there is washing not out when it should be, or out when it shouldn't, that sparks a bad reaction.
In all our years together, we have only really "argued" over 2 things, money and the laundry!
Since starting chastity back in May, the laundry thing has been a non issue as I try and make sure I am doing more to keep on top of requirements...
My wife would never force me to do housework, but she likes to brag to family and friends about all the housework I do and all the other little things I do for her.
i dont think anybody cud do work ever day out and do all housework and everthing else. they wud not have time to go to bed and sleep.
We are retired and have lots of time for sex and housework. When I go 2 or 3 weeks without an orgasm I want to have sex all day long.