Another KH key wearing question...

This is key [sic].
Keys are quite vanilla as jewellery, they have many meanings, the most common being reaching of age or yourself or a child, or of owning your house, or "key to my/your heart, ...

 

My wife wears the key on a long necklace, small key sitting deep within her cleavage. To my knowledge only one person has seen it and knew what it was for.

 

My wife wears it on her necklace and has done for years its a normal padlock key as I wear a MM jailbird with padlock so I wonder what people think but nothing has been said I can see it all the time

 

For our first chastity anniversary I bought my Goddess a necklace I think it looks wonderful on her

 

My wife doesn't really like wearing the actual key to my cage because once a co-worker remarked about it and actually guessed what it was for!

So instead she wears her jewelry key, which has a special private meaning, the same one as in my avatar. Here is a pic of her wearing it.

 

A symbolic key pendant would still illicit a thrill in me as others seeing it might understand the hidden meaning. Device keys are large and are better suited on a key-chain with your house and car keys, where it still might be seen and recognized.

So, to me, a symbolic pendant on your neck or wrist and the real key on your key-chain would be my suggestion

 

I've always said that those keys are ugly as sin.
But your hidden key pendant is beautiful.

 

The keys are really ugly. I got my KH one from chastity shop, but as it is silver you really have to be careful when opening and closing, to not hurry and bend the key.
I fully go with the jewellery key. They also make really nice presents. Here some suggestions, some shops offer to change the language and send abroad, or maybe use it as inspirations. If money is no problem, check Tiffanysm they have many.
Tip to finding one in your country: Use the google picture search and google like
key necklace shop gold (or other material) and name of your country.

This one I got my KH, others might follow: https://www.gschmuck.de/gold/diaman...sel-und-einem-diamanten-0-006-ct-p152575.html
https://www.gschmuck.de/gold/halsketten/damen/halskette-mit-schluessel-heratis-p144187.html
https://www.thejewellershop.com/de/...uessel-aus-585er-gold-mit-diamanten-dp0215slk
https://www.thejewellershop.com/de/...ldanhaenger-schluessel-mit-diamanten-dp0218sl
https://www.klenota.de/Schmuck-mit-Schlussel/Goldkette-mit-Schlussel
https://www.klenota.de/Schmuck-mit-Schlussel/Goldanhanger-HOPE

bracelets:
Crown for your queen: https://www.christ.de/product/87685829/valeria-armband-87685829/index.html
https://www.gschmuck.de/gold/anhaenger/armband/goldanhaenger-fuer-armband-schluessel-p147987.html
https://www.klenota.de/Schmuck-mit-...MI67_GwPSa6wIVifhRCh1VDAtWEAkYASABEgLDBvD_BwE
Anklet:
https://www.silberketten-store.de/G...MImbr83L_O4wIVx-eaCh1tawgtEAQYAiABEgIAu_D_BwE

Something for him:
https://www.etsy.com/de/listing/703805421/bdsm-locking-armband-fusskettchen?ref=related-1&pro=1

Hope sb. might find some inspiration.

 

Good question, and something I have thought about a few times however, my sub likes the idea that there is no way of getting out and likes me to keep the key hidden away as much as possible unless letting him out for cleaning or edging. He is a great problem solver with a deviant streak and I think that having it on display would lead him to be consumed about ways to get the key rather than his attention being squarely on worshiping me. When locked we have lots of verbal reminders and teasing through out as constant reminders which focuses him on me being his only gateway to any pleasure. As others have said the key itself is ugly and big for a necklace, especially as I am quite petite, however I do like the capsules and I like the symbolic reminder idea rather than the actual key itself - something to look into.

 

Not the actual key, but a good way for her to costantly remind me who’s in charge

 

My kh wears her key on an anklet. Sorry for the paranoid background picture! It's a usual key which I've cut down and drilled a fresh hole.

 

I was having a think about getting a keepsake box with a padlock but then buying a nicer padlock and key to go on KH’s necklace. Something like this little padlock and key. She could bung in all of the various keys into the keepsake box then and just wear the more decorative version when out and about.

 

My wife in the beginning wore the key on a necklace. Some people asked, what it was for and some knew.
But at some point she found the key too ugly and so she took it off.

My solution was to attach it to a bootlace. She loves DocMartens, me how I kneel in front of hers and kiss them and I love to help her in and out.

So it isnt too obvious, still ugly, but shows people who know what she is into.

Her chef, female, told her that she recognized the key on her boot the first day she started working and she was sure what it was about.

Some weeks ago they went on a kinky event together and had some fun.
Spoke about the hubbies, BDSM, about my chastity and other fetishes.

 

Is this subtle and delicate enough?

Necklace
https://ae01.alicdn.com/kf/HTB1NDJC...tric-Round-Circle-Chocker-Collar-Necklace.jpg

Pendant
https://media.prod.bunnings.com.au/api/public/content/6cb23ea226cb43e086395c0d7b753b79?v=064d998d

 

The only thing that matter is what you think and what you want, that’s it. It’s down to you, if your not happy to display a full key all the time then tell him and get him to order the other!
From here on in everything is your decision!

 

My wife initially wore the real key on a long necklace and would happily wear it out for all to see.
As we have developed in the lifestyle, she has now replaced the real key with a symbolic one that I purchased for her from Etsy.
The real key is hidden somewhere in the house with the emergency spare in a sealed envelope.

 

My wife and her girlfriend (who now holds the other key) at dinner the other night

 

My wife wore the actual key with this shirt to work this week and her boss, who is a swinger, immediately knew what it was for. Now anytime I go to visit her I know she is going to give me a hard time.

That day alone she told my wife to give me a good pegging when she gets home.