Those who’ve read my posts of woe before will know things have been very ‘up and down’ but generally my wife has been accepting and for that I’m grateful... One day I’ll do a journey thread but for now, another update - my last email: I’d like to say thank you for keeping the key for these past couple of months. I know it was my idea and I asked you but I do also hope that part of you also enjoys keeping it - in some way it makes you smile when you see it in your phone case. I’m not sure how much it is in my control (!) but I’d like to offer you the key for next year – if you’d like to keep it? I have no expectation if/when you use it. I’d just humbly ask that you engage me in something sexual as as often and in what ever way as you enjoy. I know you haven’t been feeling well a lot and I hope I haven’t put any pressure on you. It’s your game to play as you like and I want to be able to say that I respect that completely but some times I do struggle. My only actual request to you is that you remind me of this often. Telling me that, for example, you enjoy keeping me locked or see no reason/have no reason to unlock me etc... or how ever you wish… Then positively directing me in the way that you want e.g. if/how I should cuddle you (or what ever else you chose) would ensure my excitement was managed so I wasn’t disappointed or grumpy.
That was a few days ago and last night she gave me the key and proceeded to tease me before telling me to lock back up and then pleasure her! Getting to sleep was something of a challenge That was totally unexpected!! Today, my wife has gone for a once-in-a-blue-moon waxing and before she left she told me to put on my soft silicone cage with internal spikes. I even got a quick fondle as she went through the door... That was even more unexpected!! Bizarrely I could quite get into this
Anticipation is a wonderful tool! Wife doesn’t do teasing quite like we started, edging, fondling, ruined o’s, spanks for infractions, or told to wear collar. Still, when it does return, I do enjoy the anticipation as much as the actual acts themselves. Glad things are going well for u.
Thinking about it, hoping for it and then getting to do some of it, all make chastity better. Seems your wife is at least open to doing some things for you in a fantasy way, so enjoy what she allows. Best wishes for the new year and more adventures.
Yesterday evening, after a day of wearing the silicone ‘cage’ with the soft internal spikes, my wife told me to put on my belt! I haven’t for a long time been so turned on and had so many erections during the day! I was slightly disappointed in that I knew I wouldn’t be therefore getting any teasing but that was more than countered by being impressed that she was being so forward. Sleeping was even more difficult! I really love the feeling of wearing it; it’s completely secure, I can’t even get a finger to any part of my self. I love sliding my hand down and feeling the smooth, hard steel completely incasing my cock and balls and the pressure as my cock tries to swell in its tube. The whole belt is near rigid and fits so snugly I can barely get a finger underneath it anywhere. Washing isn’t really practical so I known I’ve got perhaps a day, two at the very most before it has to come off.
Ugh! Well, the children didn’t go down well last night so if we (my wife) had planned anything, it didn’t happen... I got asked if I wanted to put on something else more comfortable (the novelty of wearing this belt soon wears off - it soon gets to feel like a chastity belt from the middle-ages!). I said I’d put on what ever she liked and was told she’s prefer me to stay in this! It’s surprised me how saying such a little thing with a little bit of instruction in her voice turned me on... I’ve watched porn videos and had less stirring down there! Down side is, it’s now the morning of the second night (36hrs) and it’s tight, uncomfortable and I’m constantly aware its affecting the way walk, bend or sit down. Hope it comes off tonight!
Several years ago I ordered what was perceived to be one of the best a Tollyboy; I was disappointed. Long term wear is not practical imho and with it being a custom fit you would need to maintain your weight; body shape also changes so a cage is i think a better long term solution. In my case a Contender with a PA.
Late update: So I spent New Year’s Eve in the belt and on New Year’s Day ( three nights) with no further instruction or contact, I asked for the key for a wash and if I could put the normal cage back on. So I washed and put it on. I managed to work it such that I pleasured my wife on Sunday evening, 3 days later, after being a little forward and asking (via text) if I should get any toys out having gone to bed earlier. Also there wasn’t any convenient excuses to hand! I surprised her with a blind fold and also had a warmed up glass dildo (not just the vibrator as requested). I’ve not seen her enjoy herself so much for ages. Absolutely loved it. But between times... nothing. Radio silence. If I hadn’t pushed, nothing would have happened again. It’s so frustrating.