Hi everyone. I've been involved with a male sub for the past three years. He introduced me to orgasm denial and I fell in love with it. And then I went further and got into chastity. He can't wear a device because 1) he's married and the wife doesn't know he's kinky and 2) she doesn't that he has a domme. It's a big disappointment for me. Alas, I adore the guy so what am I gonna do? Anyway, I've lurked on the forums for these last years learning more about it and admiring the level of discourse happening here. Now I'm faced with a problem. I work full-time at a good job with benefits, like a regular adult. I don't have much time to find other play partners or get involved with anyone else. And while I have an empty room in my house I could convert into a playspace, I don't want to impose on my (vanilla/monogamish) husband. Plus I have dogs. I don't imagine it's very fun to have someone come over for kinky playtime and be forced to listen to dogs barking or my husband doing dishes. So I had a thought- maybe I could charge money to play? Honestly it is my favorite thing to do and would happily invest time and money into my very own playspace if I had it, but I'm simply too maxed out with work/family/current sub/life. I thought if I could at least rent a studio and charge enough to cover that cost I'd be happy. Of course, I'd love to make enough to buy the high-end toys I've had my eye on. The ones I see in videos. I'd also love to make enough that I could work my benefits-having job only part-time. But I don't have any aspirations of being a full-time prodomme. I'm certainly not the typical prodomme I see on websites- black hair, fetish gear, hardcore mistress name. I don't need/like those signifiers. I'm confident about what I have to offer. And my other issue is that I want to be able to really play. I know domination services aren't supposed to involve any sexual contact, but what if I want to do it? I know myself well enough that if there is a beautiful cock in front of me, I'm going to want to touch it. I want to edge and ruin orgasms, not just watch them do it to themselves. That said, I don't want the kind of expectations that come with conventional sex work. I don't have to do any of it financially speaking, so I don't want to play with anyone I don't like. I also want to have longer-term play parners so I can really develop them as submissives. Any thoughts on this? Does it sound reasonable? Does it sound do-able? Any advice on how to get started? Thanks, guys.