Accepting chastity as part of life

Maid Denise · Mar 6, 2021

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Hello! I hope everyone in the community is doing well and taking good care of themselves today!

I wanted to share some thoughts with y'all that I had this morning.

So, the chastity lifestyle can feel a bit funny at first, especially if you were like most men and took your erections and orgasms for granted! I know I did!

But who says that those things should be available to us at all times? Or dare I say, should ever be available to us?

I’ve noticed that if I simply accept chastity as a part of my life, as my default state per se, it becomes a much more natural and fulfilling process.

Rather than a passing fetish, it becomes something that you're really dedicated to. It replaces what used to be there in a non-negotiable way.

The more familiar I become with staying locked, with riding the waves of arousal, letting them rise and then fall on their own, the less I consider the possibility that I could go back to my old 'vanilla' ways.

For example, after my last long-term lockup, I allowed myself to have a 'real' erection, which I thought would feel amazing, but it turned out to be underwhelming. I realized how much I enjoyed forgetting what that felt like, and I wanted to forget even more.

Does anyone else view chastity in this way? As a given? A natural state of being?

I know that some of this touches on realms of fantasy, but it's definitely fun to consider how deep one could go
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I now know exactly where you are coming from . I am now hoping to stay locked for 60 days this time. I am only day 10. It was a fantasy life 3 years ago , but now it is our lifestyle. Back then it was hard for me to go 3 days. I started to realize when I would wake in the morning without the cage on and my body didn't feel right , I knew it was now a lifestyle for me . Great post.

FLR Guy · Mar 6, 2021

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I now know exactly where you are coming from . I am now hoping to stay locked for 60 days this time. I am only day 10. It was a fantasy life 3 years ago , but now it is our lifestyle. Back then it was hard for me to go 3 days. I started to realize when I would wake in the morning without the cage on and my body didn't feel right , I knew it was now a lifestyle for me . Great post.
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Thank you I appreciate that! I totally know what you mean about it 'not feeling right.'
I LOVE that feeling, it helps keep me determined
60 days is a fantastic goal! I'm about to hit day 5, you're on day 10, I'd say we're doing pretty good!
Usually my libido goes absolutely crazy around day 5-7, then calms down a bit, then comes back, then I can reach the stage where it's just in the background and more normal. My little guy usually gives up at that point and stops trying to get hard which is a huge relief lol

Maid Denise · Mar 6, 2021

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Thank you I appreciate that! I totally know what you mean about it 'not feeling right.'
I LOVE that feeling, it helps keep me determined
60 days is a fantastic goal! I'm about to hit day 5, you're on day 10, I'd say we're doing pretty good!
Usually my libido goes absolutely crazy around day 5-7, then calms down a bit, then comes back, then I can reach the stage where it's just in the background and more normal. My little guy usually gives up at that point and stops trying to get hard which is a huge relief lol
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Now it takes about 5 days to get over a release. It has been a long time since I went more than 2 weeks and that just when my submission kicks in. I love being a submissive , but better is when my mind is in that frame . Let's don't forget the deepest Love you can imagine with your wife , and that last until you are given a release. Start all over again. So that is why I am trying for 60 days this time . Who knows maybe I will ask to stretch that for another month or more. Well talk to you later .

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