My kh and wife offered me the option to have a ruined one after 41 days( the longest till now) without any orgasm or relief. I have to stay at least 3 more weeks until she will release me for a full orgasm. It may be 3 weeks or more What should I say to her ?
I think you can easily go another 3 weeks or more without any release. As of today, I'm on Day 219 of such a journey, and my Lovely Wife & KeyHolder has yet to indicate when, if EVER, I'll get to have a release. She keeps mentioning something about "1000 days", which puts me into early 2023!!!! She is rather enjoying what she's doing to me, so who am I to take away that pleasure from her? Anyway...I'm over 20% of the way there, now!!! LOL Unless She, your Lovely KeyHolder/Wife, wants you to have a release, you should continue on your journey without said release. Hey...that might be a good way to celebrate New Year's Eve this year. That's only another 7 weeks! You're almost about half-way there now!!! And then you can make it a tradition...for your once a year release! Good Luck! ~subrick
I agree, what is a ruined orgasm going to get you after 41 days that you won't get in three weeks with a full orgasm? And if you can go 41 days, why can't you be denied indefinitely? It gives you opportunity to focus exclusively on your Wife's pleasure without those pesky male hormones getting in the way.
I'll disagree. A ruined will give you a release of pressure without the hormone drop from a full orgasm. Just had a full O yesterday after 43 days in and I am feeling it today. Consider the ruined.
So sorry for you. It's a huge step forward in chastity when you begin to resent your orgasm. But I'm sure she had her reasons.
If you are going that long, I am not even sure why there is a definite date set. I would just let her do her thing at that point.
i would ask for at least another 41 days . i resently went 54 days and made myself cum via playing wiuth my nipples but afterwards wished id never done it becouse it means starting all over again and it takes time to build up to that level of sexual frustration and exstem hornyness and submission . once youve gone that long theres no reason to ever cum again just enjoy the ride
The "No" option is ambiguous. Does it mean "no orgasm" or "orgasm, not ruined"? The possible options should be: No Orgasm Ruined Orgasm Full Orgasm
I would go for a ruined for health reasons (unless you had wet dreams or something), going back to chastity after full orgasm is extra frustrating and feels like starting it all over again.
We started for the first time locktober ( a little late for some reasons) and we decided to go for november also. That is why the 2 mibths end on 6th december and that is why we have a date set. At some point i asked my kh that i don't want a fixed date to end and that I want to not know when it will be. But i am not sure she wants to make it longer because she misses piv and SHE misses my orgasms. I wish it will be longer even if it is 1 week longer . In that way we will keep the element of surprise and she will be more in control. But i repeat i don't know if it will happen. Thinking of the situation it is almost what we wanted, i am not sure if it will be 6th december and she decides.
The "no" was for a ruined. At this point i was not having the option of a full one. The offer was only last night 1 hour after i posted. So because the first answers were no, it was no ruined for me, just edging q few times. We continue with november untill... untill idk when at this moment. The 2 months end on 6th decemver. It may be the date of release and full orgasm or it may not be as I explained in the previous post. We are not yet committed to longer periods like more month or years. This is the longest till now Thank you all for the answers
I had 3 weeks ago some milking from pegging. Not an orgasm just leaking from the anal stimulation ( of course caged).
Yes I did. I'm on the 53 day without orgasm and I am at the point where I feel I will be disappointed when it will end. I know it will sometime in December but I really, really hope it will not be before Christmas
The longer you go, the more you don't want to be unlocked. I never thought I'd get to the stage where you get disappointed when your partner wants PIV!
This is why chastity doesn't make sense to "regular" people I always regret orgasms after I have them! I am currently at around 25 days and I dont want it to end!