I like him doing chores for me! :)
Hi! I'm back after a long hiatus. I have had some severe health issues, so 2022 was a challenging year for me. But I'm glad that I'm getting...
Same here - my boyfriend is more attentive to me when he hasn’t gotten himself off. I appreciate him saving himself for me.
Yeah, both my boyfriend and I enjoy it when I “catch” him. It’s a fun and thrilling chase, and I think he likes to play hard to get. Thanks so...
That sounds interesting and could be fun. But the problem is that he’s able to get loose and undo all of his cuffs one by one, if he’s not kept in...
Unfortunately, the ring has pointy corners that poke him when he gets hard. It’s always a race to get the ring off before it starts hurting him.
Yeah, I think that would be great too! As fun as it is to tie him down, I feel the major downside is that it really limits the positions we can do...
Thank you everyone for your well wishes and helpful suggestions! We are enjoying exploring new things, so we will try some of the ideas gradually.
Hi everyone! I have been away for a while - got COVID, eventually recovered, work became busy & stressful as I started in a new role, and then...
My mood changes throughout the week - I feel assertive only some of the time too. I personally like Express and Ann Taylor. Hope you and your...
Hi Jane, I couldn’t get direct messaging to work, so I’m dropping a note here instead. I read a little bit of your blog and book, and I love it so...
Thanks for the update Jane! I’ll check it out on Amazon kindle this weekend - it would be some nice lazy weekend morning reading in bed. :)
Great book! I usually don’t like reading erotic stories, but this one turned out to be the exception. As my boyfriend and I are getting into...
Thank you all for your thoughts on this issue. I guess there are many different perspectives and ways to approach this! To answer some of your...
Also! We did buy a new cage. We needed one that would be easier to put on, since his first one was fiddly and had too many random pieces.
Yeah, we talked about it. My bf said he enjoyed it, and he is willing to do this more often :) He did ask for more attention though. He said he...
A forum member suggested to me that I put the cage on him in order to encourage him. The problem is that his cage has lots of little pieces, and...
Thank you all for your welcomes and for your advice. Following the advice, I have been giving BF more attention lately and also proactively...
Hmm... thanks for the tip. My man is not submissive, so I'm not sure if me locking him in would turn him on or not. But I'll keep this mind and...
Ha! We are both lighthearted and don't take anything in life too seriously. Especially after covid, which made us realize life could be shorter...