It's been a busy summer and fall. My keyholder moved to a cottage, which we spent the summer renovating, but due to unforeseen circumstances,...
As many of you know, I have a wife, and a keyholder, who is queer, somewhat asexual, kinky, and one of our best friends. I was realizing the...
I've been wearing a typical Chinese micro cage, with a bubber plug in it, to help push my penis up into the body, rather than have the head sit in...
I've been chaste so long (3 years without using my penis for sex, or sex while unlocked) that when I look at porn, or imagine doing it again, I...
My keyholder recently switched me over to an alternate cage, with a very short tube and a barred end, so that I don't have to remove the cage...
With the isolating and lockdowns, I've gone from seeing my keyholder a few times a week, to nothing in the past month. She had the flu, at the...
We've been working on having me go fully chaste, no orgasms or ejaculations for 6 months straight, and managed to reach 6 months. Unfortunately,...
A conversation with my keyholder/Domme today on why I'm not allowed any sexual pleasure and stay locked. We have a Ds/bdsm relationship, so it's...
We decided to try having me go 6 months between emptying/ejaculations. The longest I'd gone before was just under 3 months, and we are a bit over...
I've had a denial fetish going back 30 years or so, as far as I can tell. I remember seeing 80's porn, where they guy gets all the foreplay, humps...
I commented on a post the other day about being in permanent chastity, which got me thinking about how I/we define permanent in my relationship....
There was a discussion going about Ingrid Bellemare's book, Owning and training a male slave, in another thread. I thought I'd start a thread on...
For the past year or so, I've been trusted to "empty" myself, but masturbating, with my cage on, every 1-3 months. Generally I rely on having gone...
So I did a post on dealing with feelings of emasculation and how it's made me feel when out in public, or being social. Several people had similar...
For the longest time, I was allowed to unlock for family gatherings or get togethers with friends. I didn't want to feel horny in those settings...
Like most of us who are locked, I get turned on by my own predicament. Weirdly, the #1 thing to get me worked up in the past, was the idea of...
Me: My biggest fantasy has always been a denial fetish. Even edging, I'd go weeks before allowing myself an orgasm. Keyholder: I want a guy who...
Back in the early or mid 2000's it was a dick in a cage, and sometimes a cock in a cage. The cage was on for many days, but there was free time...
What seems to work for me in metal, and worked on my plastic devices, some of which I modified, is a large ring with a minimum gap between the...
I know it sounds redundant, but we were talking about how my own chastity is intended to have me essentially be willingly impotent, not counting...