Just been reading the porn addiction thread and it got me thinking. Does anybody else actually get bored with porn? Do you find the 'same old things' now just don't push your buttons like they did? I don't know if perhaps I'm low on testosterone or suffering from stress 'in real life' but I find I'm very often 'knocking one out' without really being turned on, just going through the motions. I'm not yet 40 and I still considered my sex drive to be high - I think about sex nearly as often as I ever did, but it no longer seems to result in a high level of arousal ether mentally or physical. I'm wondering if my wife was to actually take the key 'properly' if after some time my brain would reset its self...? We've talked about 'this' at length and we've discussed our differing levels of interest in sex. But my wife appears to want to ignore it and I don't want to push it.
Why don't you try stopping thinking about sex so often and consider intimacy may offer you a richer life. Your primacy about 'knocking one out' will always be the barrier to where the real passion is and in there, the beauty of D/s. There is a different lens to look through, probably worth trying that.
I've definitely lost interest in regular, mainstream porn. The typical boy-girl stuff that used to get me off hasn't done anything for me for years. Occasionally, I can watch a FFM threesome and imagine myself as a sissy replacing one of the women as the other two participants have sex and she orally pleases one or both of them. I do enjoy watching cuckold porn if it involves humiliation of the cuckold and if it's at least somewhat believable. And I routinely watch femdom and POV humiliation clips.
If I watch porn too often I keep seeing the same videos and that gets boring as I search for a specific type. So I used to stop looking at porn for a while so new material surfaced. Now that I'm locked I have no use for porn. I used to stay late at work to surf porn or waste a Saturday while my wife was out shopping and the kids were at my parents house and look at porn. Now I don't and get alot more done.
... When masturbation has lost its fun you're fukin lazy! You're normal. Porn is boring before it even starts. It is all fake. You need to lie to yourself for it to work. Once that lie festers it creates a rot that seems to only be filled with more porn... but lies do damage. Thus the lack of excitement.
my interest in latex will never wane. just today i saw a redhead in a Tiffany green latex dress. it wasnt even your typical form fitting dominatrix eye catching look. just a plain classy green dress and i couldnt take my eyes off it other porn. yeah does nothing for me. im becoming more and more interested in kink and less interested in vanilla anything. a average looking woman who is kinky would have me panting in heat vs a 10/10 woman who has no interest in anything outside of vanilla. all of the above assuming i was single. happily caged and under my wifes control.
Chastity for me is a chance to focus on someone else's needs , I've always been selfish , that in a nutshell is reason I'm in chastity
I still look at porn, a lot. I always look for fem dom and if I find the right material I get hard inside my cage. I don't cum, I don't want to cum, but I'm always seeking the stimulation. I enjoy chastity captions a lot, imagining the sexy lady in the picture saying those things to me and me being in her power.
Green Day? Or Blink 182? I guess you could say that I've built up a porn callous. Something that would get me hard and ready to rock a few years ago is kind of boring now. I've gravitated toward more amateur based porn or specific situational porn. I like stuff where I can envision my wife with someone or myself in a situation. The rail thin actresses with gigantic silicone boobs holds no appeal for me. My wife doesn't do tease and denial (or super rarely does it) and to me a big part of chastity is sexual frustration. The act of being stimulated, but not allowed to achieve an orgasm. I still use porn for this reason, but my callous makes some stuff non-erotic and me more choosy on what I watch.
Thanks all for the replies! As I write this, my wife has gone out for the evening and sadly hasn’t chosen to do what we’ve talked about at length, locked me up for the duration. So I’ve locked my own belt on and left the key in the workshop. Unlike the cage, this is constantly a reminder that it’s there. Started to surf porn hub but got bored and now thinking of making a cup of tea...
Have been watching porn for 30 years now - and never get bored of it. If I had the time I would watch porn a lot more.
I got board with normal porn quite early on, but have not lost my taste for fetish porn, love watching latex/rubber vids, femdom, bondage ect! In fact madam and I do watch it together.