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    Do people find that the small cages do stop erections in their tracks and lead to a more comfortable long term experience / lifestyle?
     
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    Absolutely! It cost me a lot of money and a lot of time to finally learn that. I think that, as an Alpha Male who was emotionally "proud" of his penis size, it was an internal mental battle for me to consider putting it into a progressively smaller cage. But, after experiencing the pain/discomfort of permitting erections to get started inside a larger cage, we bought a smaller one and found how much nicer it was. Then we found the smallest one that I could fit into (each guy is different) and, since then, erection pain, sleepless nights and morning wood went away and life is so much better ever since. IMHO, you should get the smallest cage that you can fit into when flaccid. That really does serve to virtually eliminate those painful erections before they really get started.
     
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    Most definitely, and quite delicious. Any erections are stopped in their tracks and the penis just kinda gives up
     
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    Definitely. We went on to try smaller cages and have found they are best for us both.
    I much prefer the lack of discomfort that a small cage gives
    My Lady enjoys being in control through denying my orgasms and now for a year she denies me erections too. She takes great pleasure in knowing that any attempt at an erection by me will fail and that repeated attempts when the urge persists the most are reduced to little more than twitching in the cage.
    I have admitted to her that although I do want both orgasms and erections I have learned that I do prefer the level of control she demonstrates by not permitting either. Which comes as yet another complete surprise to me
     
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    Never tried a very small cage, I find my good old cb2000 very comfy and my madam loved the discomfort of me trying to get hard!
     
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    Not sure a smaller size would work as the foreskin would protrude for me!
     
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    It worked for me. Mine gave up trying to get erect in about 2 weeks, and has held that over for about 5 years now. I never have spontaneous erections any more.
     
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    I have a girth issue, smaller cages cause edema for me, so I have the BON4M, though I do touch the sides at all times. Besides, I’m a masochist, I like CBT, and the only time I try to get hard in my cage is when my Wife is teasing me, or I touch her, or I can smell her.... I guess my Wife is imprinted on me which, as I think about it, is pretty awesome.

    Also, it makes her incredible wet to feel me trying to bulge through the bars.... she’ll tease me until there are tears running down my cheeks as I masturbate Her.
     
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    If and when my kh finally gets me caged I know she will want a long term solution to managing me and would get rather fed up if it has to be taken off all the time due to comfort issues and don’t want the problems I encountered with a cb3000 .
     
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    I'm with you. I've been curious about smaller cages, with the idea of more completely repressing even attempted erections, but I fill my medium sized Contender and had some edema with an earlier slightly smaller cage. Can't imagine where the extra tissue would go with a micro cage.
     
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    How much smaller than flacid length do you recommend?
     
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    MaleChastityNow suggests using the flaccid length. MatureMetals suggests subtracting 1/4”. I went with the latter and have been very comfortable (except when being teased!). More important surely is to measure when you are truly flaccid — MCN says something like “at your smallest but not shriveled”. Suggests at least 2 hours after warm shower or after cold swim.
     
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    I have been wearing a very small cage for 4 days now.(see my new pictures) My Wife(KH) has teased me a few times and there is no erection. My penis strains to get hard, but nothing. I do get hard behind my ring, and my Wife is fascinated by this. We worked around the yard today, came in and had a shower. My Wife had me take the cage off to wash. She soaped it up and washed my cock & balls(Cage off, ring on). She gave me 10-15 good strokes and I was hard as a rock. She wouldn't let go of my hard on, a few more tugs and she handed me back the cage.
     
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    With all due respect to donnasue and the others posters here, this has not been my experience. I still throb and attempt to be erect daily, and the night-time erections and morning wood never go away. I'm in a A273-small -- see my photo galleries 3 and 4 -- and while it controls and prohibits complete erection it has not convinced my penis of the fruitlessness of trying. But yes, smaller is better.
     
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