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    So here we are waiting for our wedding night just under 2 weeks to go until we actually get married. We have (or actually I have) decided we won't be having see until we get married. Since I don't trust him I have locked him up. He has been locked for about a week now. The question is do I release him that evening or do I keep it going? Let's put it to a vote to you out there.
     
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    i say release him. After all you do need to consummate the marriage ;).
     
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    unlock him then in the morning secure him and then tell him that you think release would be a nice anniversary present.
     
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    Maybe You agree to unlock him, but only after he has done whatever it takes to please You some first. After he has had a bit of extra wait and think time, then let him out to consummate the marriage. Once that happens, You decide if You want him locked back immediately or Your going to go easy and give him a break.. If you lock him back right away, be prepared to tell him why, along with how much You love him.
     
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    I'd also say it depends on how much control you really desire and how much he is willing to submit right at the start of this marriage . It certainly will establish and set the tone for how things will begin for the two of you in this journey. Sounds like the ball is already somewhat in your court. Good luck to you.
     
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    maybe milk him dry first and then have fun.
     
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    I would unlock him and you both have great sex on your wedding night (or maybe even better the night after, depending on the alcohol consumption on the wedding day ;))

    After that lock him up again, then he will have something to look forward to, as he already experienced how great sex can be with you...:D

    Might be the start of something very beautiful for both of you! :)

    Good luck for your wedding day and most of all for your marriage!
    May the loving days turn into weeks, months, seasons, years...:love:
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    We are going to be married soon, and I too have thought about the night of. I am mixed between what I want, what would be hot, and what I think is best to set the tone for our life together.

    What I want? I want to tear that dress off and have my way with her.

    What would be hot? Letting me out of my cage, played with it and getting it to the point of bursting and once I’ve made her cum, she tells me to lock back up.

    What would be best to set the tone? After I get her off in any way she wants SHE consummates the marriage by taking me with our strapon. Keeping me locked. Thus setting the tone and pecking order of our new life together.

    I will have to wait and see what she decides, she may just go with option 1 and let me tear that dress off her.

    Seems like this is a decision that only you can make, the only wildly different part is that normally the wedding night is the night that women usually feel obligated to have sex, and you know you never have to do that. Good luck!
     
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    I second that.
    One last release ...
     
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    Okay. So I won't be showing my fiancee this thread ;)
     
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    Don't be scared. It's all going to be fine.
     
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    I think it would be a fabulous wedding gift for him to offer u the keys as a wedding gift and for it to be your choice ..
    Consummation would be him pleasuring you after the rules are agreed apon..
    If we're setting the tone n all...
    giggling
    Happy naughty thoughts..
     
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    So what's so wrong about consummating your wedding with you riding a strap on as he looks into your eyes and you cum and he doesn't? Start how you mean to go on! Hope you have a great day (and night)! Best wishes from the Chaste house.
     
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    First of all congrats on your wedding!!! i personally would think keeping him locked on the actual wedding night sets the tone of your marriage. Forcing him to stay locked while pleasing you for the first night will certainly cement your roles. Then if you feel he deserves it, letting him out a day or so after to be nice would be super hot in my mind. Regardless, it's Your special day so you should decide what fits our lifestyle best. Of course, a strap-on used on him could be your way to Consummate the Marriage your own way hehehe
     
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    Congrats to you both as well Nick!
     
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    you should take him the first night, the second night you are taken by him or someone else you feel close to and can trust
     
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    It's up to you. Do you wish to have PIV sex on that night? If so, then you will have to release him. If you wish to be satisfied by other means then you don't have to release him. It's down to your desires. Whatever you choose, I hope it goes well...
     
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    Congratulations! My suggestion: if you are comfortable with it, make the Key a part of the ceremony, just like a ring. He puts a ring on your finger and then hands you the key.

    That evening, unlock him, but not until he's given you an orgasm (or 2 or 3 if you want). Then you can both enjoy PIV with each other. The cage goes back on in the morning.


    Here's another twist: if you are ready for children, tell him that if he can knock you up on the wedding night, he gets one (or however many you want) extra orgasm(s) each month. If not, then he only gets to unlock at your most fertile time each month until you are pregnant. I guarantee it will make him crazy with desire for you!
     
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    first congratulation,
    I read plenty of good ideas around, on my side I would let him lock the first night for 2 reasons:
    1 - He need to learn to wait, he has no rights to do sex until you decide
    2 - On that day you are often tired or drunk so a good rest night is better.

    I was wondering if cuckhold was also in your fantasy ? it could be a signal to have someone else before him. no idea if you are virgin.
     
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    So many great replies after reading some of these I think I will keep him locked in the night of and wait a later time to unlock him. We have cuckolded in the past but I feel that's not a good way to start. Also I want him to know that I'm in control. I have access to the keys and only me.
     
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    well that will definitely set the precedent and who is in charge.
     
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    That's the idea
     
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    Awesome decision!! How long before the wedding will he be caged, is there a honeymoon right after?
     
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    He's been caged for about 2 weeks the honeymoon isn't until June
     
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    Enjoy your special day!
     

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