My wife and I have finally agreed on a new direction. Since having a bladder neck resection nearly 2 years ago I am unable to ejaculate as it just goes back into my bladder. I also have ED issues so for the past 2 years PIV has pretty much been impossible. For the last few weeks I have been locked in ball trap cage and this is causing lots of chafing so we have decided that I get a frenum piercing and an evotion bijou once healed. Once that is locked on it is staying on permanently with exceptions for cleaning and any medical issues. With a review after 6 months and then a further review after a further 2 years on my 50th birthday. After that no further chance of removal. As my wife can get no pleasure from my penis due to the ED and being unable to ejaculate anyway we both feel it is the next logical step. Wish me luck on this long journey.
Good luck to the both of you. Your oral skills and a nice strap-on for your wife should keep her smiling Who knows, maybe she like using the strap on on you ! New directions.
Good luck on your journey. A piercing and that cage sounds perfect. No possible escape! I think it’s great you are making the most of what many would see as a very upsetting situation. That’s where this lifestyle has a definite advantage and you have complete commitment. I applaud you both for using this as a positive and fun way to continue with what could be an amazing continued sex life together
Have you tried wearing the strapon? If you haven’t, and your prostatic nerves are still intact, you may want to explore prostate stimulation.
I have found found that nipple play can be very arousing. In fact I've had some "nipple orgasms" where I have a "dry" orgasm with just seminal fluid oozing form my penis. My hips thrust and buck as if I am having thrusting into a vagina. Give it a try.
Hi Dana, I have never tried nipple play; how does it work? I use a TENS with pad while locked in stainless steel Nub that edges me to climax. It is the only way I can get relief.