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he's just asking every women he sees as dominant to order him to do the stuff he wants to do.

 

Lets see, the first things that came to my mind of his thinking, selfless, rude, thinking with the wrong head. No one that I would want to be associated with

 

He’s a ‘stroker’ with piss poor manners. I don’t understand attraction without AT LEAST a bit of rapport. God knows I’m not perfect, but without familiarity, friendship or love I just couldn’t enjoy this lifestyle with another. At least you have the ‘block’ button.

 

he wants you to serve him while pretending he's serving you.

he's projecting his wishes onto you.

 

Any introduction from a supposedly submissive person that begins with the words, "I want", is pretty much an instant give away that true service will not be forthcoming by any means.

 

hard to tell what'll happen but he'll be discovering the world of findom shortly imho.

 

Understanding what anyone thinks is a challenge. It becomes even more of a challenge when constricted to a few lines of one way thought. I agree with most of the analysis above.
The individual seems quite immature, but he may just think female domination is just a game of "Let's make a deal". For example, I serve, you feminize.
Or maybe, just not thinking at all.
But as stated before:

 

yeah, agreed. i hate findom. i left fet because it is everywhere there. i met two findommes i consider were legit on there (they were basically super in budgeting for guys and it was more helping guys with their finances rather than just draining their accounts.) Wasn't my thing to start with but I think it did start off as a genuine power exchange thing that's been over taken by people looking for a quick buck.

 

At which point he will probably lock his door and hide under the bed!

 

I would love to follow you on IG if given permission.

 

Yes. I think there are more domme woman out there than guys think but most of them don't fill the stereotype guys want them to i.e. huge strapon, makes you crossdress, fists you every day - so they are overlooked. The coolest dommes I've known have been more about mental torture (torture is probably too strong a word but that general area.)

 

There, direct hit. They would like to do the things they want, and dictate how it’s done just like ordering it out of a catalog: I’ll take a full order of forced feminization, a half order of light bondage, a little bit of discipline, but light on the pain. But they don’t want to pay their cc bill for it, hoping that someone will give them exactly what they want for free.

 

This strange "Internet" might be full of weirdos (and: yeah, maybe I am in a pole position from time to time ), so I don't feel the urge to overrate strange, dumb or braindead people. Maybe it's a mirror of society , maybe it's coincidence, but I still think this pic really tells what I mean to say:

 

it ruined fetlife for me. it's a cancer.

that and super obsequious subs who won't shut up.

 

This sort of thing saddens me, a lot.

Most of my life I have been afraid of my kinks and what they might mean. I struggled with them and what was kink and what was not. Luckily, I discovered the internet later than many of the people that seem to surface on there and send messages like the one here. I mean, I share the confusion - what on earth does someone like that actually expect will happen?

I know that I would make a terrible submissive, I'm much too selfish and have my routines, but I wouldn't ever think to try and "get my rocks off" like that with an actual real person. That's why milovana exists, it's why there are erotic fiction sites and games - these are places with no real people in them where that behaviour can be carried out. Perhaps that is part of the problem, people not realising the difference between games and reality.

I have no translation, no advice, no nothing. But unsolicited sympathy that this is a message you got.

 

Lots of narcissistic tendencies out there, seemingly especially among young men. The narcissist doesn’t see the other as a separate entity, but as an extension of the self. And the role of the other is to support and serve the gratification of the self. So he sees you as a dom, and expects that means your purpose is to fulfill his fantasies of being ordered to do what he wants to do. It doesn’t cross his mind that you might have your own desires and that as a dom you might want him to serve *your* wishes.

Doesn’t make rational sense of course...which is why we call it neurotic.

 

Sounds a lot like my cats, cats think it's all about what the cat wants. I never thought about immature, narcissistic men that way. Maybe you should handle them (men) the same way when they misbehave.
Hold them by the scruff until they act right.

 

Nothing to translate with that message. He probably copied/pasted a message sent to dozens of Dommes in the hope one of them would reply. No attention to what the Domme wants or how he could improve her life.

 

The translation of that message is exactly the same as the translation of an unsolicited dick pic. The sender is saying the exact same thing in both cases, and the sexual thrill or gratification is in the act of sending it.

Your reaction doesn’t make any difference to him because right after he sent that message he found something else on the internet to finish spanking off to, then he threw the sock on the dirty sock pile and went back to playing video games.

I wish I were joking about that but I’d bet money on it being pretty close to the literal truth.