I the US, today is Veteran's Day and is a tribute to all who served in the Armed Forces. Since I am such a veteran, each year of our FLR, Mistress has always seen fit to reward my service with a release. This year is no exception, I think. She normally milks me periodically to keep me "docile", but to build my anticipation, She hasn't done that for more than a month now, just to keep me "focused on the reward", She says. As I have thought about my promised release, it set me to thinking about my recent behavior and how I have intentionally gone overboard with service and submission to not spoil the release! That promise has such incredible power over me that my anticipation has kept building and building. She doesn't have to worry at all about my compliance with Her every request. We are only talking about a single orgasm here! The power that the simple promise of that release has over me is incredible! Mistresses and keyholders should take note! I know that I will feel differently about this tomorrow, so I thought I'd bring this to your attention today!
I feel the same way when I know there is a possible release or a way to earn one. Maybe not for you, but my anticipation far exceeds the joy I get when I finally cum. Sort of a let down instead of exploding fireworks. In any case, just the promise or hint of a release will elevate my submissive desires.
I feel just the same! The anticipation can be all consuming! Sometimes my madam doesn’t understand it, but I get so excited in the build up to a release, unfortunately it’s been some time since I had one!
Then after comes the crash. It helps that @MistressS requires me to consume the release and lock up quickly afterwards. But still, I often regret cumming for a few days until i can get back in the sub rhythm. Between the anticipation and sub drop, I often wonder if a release is worth it.
Wholeheartedly agree. I believe our men need to know there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I don't necessarily believe he needs to know when that release is just the promise of what is sure to cum. Women that lock their men away and forget it are not using the power of the cage to their advantage.
Chastity with a promised release date could also give the KH the opportunity to determine if it will mean: edge and re-cage; a ruined orgasm; or the pleasure of a full orgasm. It a great way to learn how to be careful what you wish for and to be thankful for what you get.
I do it all the time. Sometimes he is let out. Maybe a tease or ultimately the best he can expect is a ruined one. But the change in him when I tell him works every time. He becomes more eager to please me. He is sweeter, happier .... but in the end he must understand I have the right to change my mine without notice
For my sub-hubby, I don't give any "promised" releases but instead gitve him the hope of a "possible" release. Whether/when he is released depends upon his behavior and my own inclinaiton. The last time he was released and allowed to O was this past March 27, his birthday. I have told him he could "possibly" be released again in March 2021, maybe even sooner depending upon how well he behaves. Best to give him some hope, but keep him guessing!